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I'm so heartbroken I want to die!!?

   
I'm 17 yrs old and my boyfriend of 2 years has left me =( I loved him so much I just want to die cause I don't want to live without him. I don't think I'll ever find someone like him again. He is my first love and I never been heartbroken before and I keep crying, I can't sleep and I can't eat. What can I do =(

Answers:

1. you're too young to "die" over a broken heart. you'll be fine, and in another couple of weeks, you'll find someone else. you are only 17. you'll pull through.

2. e-hug!!!

3. Get over it! Dear lord! There are other guys out there! Just keep telling yourself that he is a moron and that you can do better! And go seek help about the not eating and sleeping. Go eat a few bowls of chocolate ice cream.

4. you have already answered your question. now chose a right time to execute that!

5. it sucks but only time can heal that kinda pain, but you are 17. you are gonna mature and the things you look for in a guy are gonna change probably a lot. so keep your head up. everything happens for a reason. sometimes it just takes a while to see why

6. Buy a HUGE tub of non-fat ice cream and eat til you feel better. That's what my sister does when sh!t happens to her.

7. forget about him,youll find someone whos better

8. Women tend to be more emotional about love than men and they tend to throw all their feelings at a man in many cases over too short a period. Eg: Love at first sight. You have to realize that you can't always have what you feel you want. And no matter how hard you try it may never happen. You have to step back and say just because I like him I can't expect him to feel the same about me just because I like him. If you've approached a man and he didn't respond the way you wanted well then that's it. You have to move on and accept it. Many women try to get "their man" by over flirting and using sex only to find out years later it was a big mistake. People that try too hard to make things happen usually end up in divorce many years later because it was always only a one sided attraction bought on by too much pressure at the time.

9. its really ok, youre going to be fine. what you need to do is delete his number, screen name, take down pics and everything liek that. go out with your friends,concentrate on a hobby and meet people. i know it sucks. ive been there. but youre young. you will meet so many other guys that are so much better. i was there in your sheos at 17 and i thought it was the end of th world but it was just the beginning. i found a great one. im confident you will too. but keep busy, and get with your friends. chin up.

10. ask your friends and family to keep ypu busy so you dont think about it to much. your still young, you will move on in time.. good luck xox

11. You are young and you can mend. Enjoy your life before you settle down.

12. It's normal to be sad over a breakup - rather, it would be weird if you weren't sad at all. You might just think that now you want to die, but trust me, if you live on, you wouldn't regret it later. There are so many good things that can happen, and you can meet a better boyfriend, or a guy who's really meant for you. Stay strong, and live life to its fullest.

13. don't worry about this. just chill next time when u get into this situation, you will not feel like this. jus chill

14. It will pass. as it has done for many, what does not kill, makes you stronger.

15. calm down and really take the time to relax this is the time to pamper yourself, hang out with friends date new guys, listen to happy music-anything to forget him-after all, hes a jerk for breaking it!--his Loss!

16. Hey, I know how you feel. =( You know, its not easy to get on with life after this kind of experience. Idiots may say that "You don't want him in your life anyway" or junk like that, but what will help is just getting on with your daily life. It's hard to not think about him, and it will be hard for a long time. Give it time. You will heal.

17. You can commisserate that you have joined the ranks of those who have gone through the same trauma. It is almost like the five-step grief sequence that has been advanced for those who have had a close relation or friend die. You just have to work your way through it. Find a good friend who can spare you a shoulder and go down to Friendly's and get a big banana split or something like that.

18. I am 17 also and I have felt exactly like you before. I just tried my best to forget him. I did things to take my mind off of him, and eventually he realized that he missed me and he came back, we've been together for 3 years now.

19. this happened to me last year- same exact thing. i told myself i'd never find someone else. well... to date- i haven't just because i haven't felt ready to date. the breakup left me insecure about myself, and hurt me a lot emotionally. but i think that all you need is to become interested in someone else. and pretty soon, that new person will start pushing him out and soon enough, replace him. of course you're hurting... it's normal. but as you mature, each heartbreak will make you stronger, and you won't be so vulnerable next time. you will learn from your mistakes and learn not to commit them again.

20. Too hell with him!!! Any guy that's gonna make you cry isn't worth SPIT! Go find someone who is worthy of you...don't waste another minute thinking about the jerk!

21. Cry if it makes you feel better but don't cry too much. what can you do, you can spent time with your friends. I know its hard and emotional. But give yourself time. If you want to write down how you feel in your journal or something. Stay busy. Hang out with friends and just laugh. Enjoy your life. Smile. It will pass, believe it, you will be okay.

22. You can't die of a broken heart. You'll get over it. Just pretends he's dead if there's no chance of him coming back to you. Just remember good times but accept he doesn't want to be with you anymore. That's all I can think of. You're 17. He's not the last guy you're ever going to date. There's over 3 billion men on the planet. Pick one and go after him.

23. I believe that's what meant to be will be. but even if you don't please remember that life does go on and nothing heals a broken heart but time you will go on and you will meet someone better cause girl if he just dropped you like that after 2 years you deserve better and you are still young the biggest mistake I made was getting into a relationship young and staying in it you will have a blast dating and hanging out with whoever you want without worrying about a b/f. The worst thing you can do is jump into another relationship, give yourself time to heal and be young. I promise it gets easier, and your l,ife will only get better from here!

24. The truth is you'll probably never love this deep again. Which is probably good cause it means you'll never get hurt this much again either. Time. Time will help the hurt lessen. Just try to put on a happy face during the day, do your job (even if that is just being a student), be nice to others, and cry a lot. Sometimes all you can do is let it hurt. But that has its purpose, we can't live in this world without pain and suffering. Suffering has a meaning but you have to find that meaning.

25. Everything just takes time. You are still young and there are plenty of guys out there waiting for you. Everyone in life has to go through some point of moving on without there First Love. You need to hang out with your friends and family more. this way it will help you keep your mind off him. Who knows maybe one day you guys will get back , but just not now. If it was meant to be then it will come back to you. "A Wise Girl Kisses, But Doesn't Love, Listens But Doesn't Believe & Leaves Before She Is Left."

26. There is life waiting for you at the end of the tunnel. Living is more wonderfull than dying, enjoy yourself and you will forget your first love. Mr Macho man will be knocking at your door.

27. your to young to die and beside if you do that you have created a sin on heaven..

28. Your making me cry:( bringing back memories from my teen age years. wow :( I'm so sorry about your situation. It's very painful literally. I wish I could give you a hug and make everything better:( One thing to remember is that he made the decision to leave for what ever reason and it is his loss! I know it will be hard to understand that now. It will take time but you will feel better. Don't chase after him. Keep yourself busy , take part in a sport keep your mind occupied. Many marriages do not last let alone highschool relationships. :( I'm sorry hun..

29. eat chocolate it will help you feel better seriously

30. every woman goes through it, we all have survived...... seriously its not meant to be and you are bviously too good for him.