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I received a voicemail of guys calling me a sl*t. Why would they do this?

   
I don't think I look/dress like a **** at all. I wear jeans everyday, with sweaters or a tee and once in a while, a sleeveless top. I checked my voicemail today and I heard 3-4 guys in the backgorund say that I'm a fat, sl*tty drama queen. I have no idea who the guys are. I've never had drama with friends in my life. This is hurtful to me because I've never been called names seriously. Should I call back and confront? Or go on with life b/c they're just immature and insecure?

Answers:

1. 3 hours ago
None of the things they said were true. I'm not fat either (I weight around 100-105 and I'm 5'1"). Still, I'm pretty sensitive.

2. 3 hours ago
It was right number because they mentioned my name

3. Dont worry about it sweetie dont even try to call them back it will just get you more upset... move on you know who you are

4. Keep the voice mail and take it to the police to press charges against them for harassment.

5. I would ignore the calls. They are very immature and not worth your time. They might even be random prank calls.

6. Perhaps they dialed the wrong number. I would just move on. Very immature, but don't let it bother you.You know it isn't true.

7. They are the idiots, so why would you care what they think? They are the idiots and their opinions are idiotic.

8. don't let it get to you. move on with your life. the guys are immature, beyond rude jerks with no respect for females. they'll surely get what's coming to them so don't worry about it.

9. keep the recording. if it happens again, call the cops. since it only happened once, there is not much they can do, but if it happens again, file a harassment report. make a record of the phone number as well. chances are that it's just a bunch of idiots, not meaning harm...if it isn't, then you want to have a record.

10. It just sounds like some guys didn't have anything to do and decided to be stupid. I wouldn't worry about calling back or anything like that. Just realize that you're above that and you know that you aren't any of the things that they said. They were just trying to get you down and the best way to respond is to live your life and cast aside their stupid antics.

11. Ahhh forget them if you know your not those things thing you need to be strong enough and believe in yourself. Those guys are just trying to have fun by hurting some one else, because they are probably fat and just cant get any so they take there issues out on someone else.

12. dont worry sweety. these things happen everynow and then in life you just have to ignore them, but if you do have caller id and still have the message you cant report them for harrasment. this way it will teach them to think before they abuse someone in such a way and if it was a practical joke they will realise its not funny

13. Wow these guys are TOTAL jerks ! Take no notice of them - you're OBVIOUSLY not sl*tty at all ! They're probably just jealous....

14. You can report it to the phone company and sometimes they can advise you as to what the phone co. will do to assist you. I agree with most of the other posters, ignore it; some idiot just wants to ruin your day. What goes around, comes around..... it'll come back on them, sooner or later.