i been talkin to a friend for a few weeks now, late nights till early morning. we communicate really well and talk about all the things that i dont talk about with my bf. my bf jus isnt interest to listen to what i have to say. Now i found out that my firend is alrady fallin for me.. and i dont know what to do. .. i told jason that i would definitly be with him if i was single, but i am not.... is this cheating? that i am still talkin to him
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1. you arent cheating. but it sounds like hes a better guy than the one you have now. i mean, he actually listens to you, whereas your bf wont. make yourself single so it wont be cheating.
2. No. I think you need to evalute who you want to be with though. This guy is willing to talk and listen to you where your boyfriend is not. If you think there is a chance dont let him get away.
3. In my book it is cheating; or only a "hair" away from it. You have to make a choice, now and choose between them. If you choose to stay with the guy you're with, then you have to stop the late night phone calls. Get a g/f who can be trusted if you have the need to confide in someone. Or your mom/sister/cousin.
4. No you aren't but I think you need to break up with your current boyfriend if he doesn't even listen to you... how rude!
Go on girl, give yourself more credit!
5. I wouldn't consider it cheating but if you have to keep if from your boyfriend then you must see something wrong with what you are doing. Which is basically just talking but if you feel the need to keep it from your bf then should you really be dating him. The other guy sounds allot better maybe you should dump the bf and give this one a chance.
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