I dunno I'm just really a very chill person and don't take anything personally. But theres this girl thats just an absolute bit.ch but for some reason I can't stay mad at her I mean there are moments when I just wanna kill her but the next day when I see her its like nothing happened.
Answers:
1. I think that if there is a reason for you to stay mad at her then you would be able to stay mad at her. Perhaps she has not given you a good enough reason to be mad at her and that is why you don't stay mad at her.
2. well, even if you never get mad at her, if she ever offends you or makes you feel discontent, tell her upfront about your feelings, so she'll know and if she cares then she'll respect you telling her, and do something about it.
3. Why would you want to be with someone like that? If you cannot get along, then stay away from her. Why make your life miserable?
I would consider reading "10 Stupid Things Men Do To Mess Up Their Lives."
4. Why do you want to stay mad at her? There are too many people who stay mad for so long that they forget what they're mad about they just know they're supposed to be mad about something. This world has way too much negativity in it already. Leave the madness to those that do it naturally. Be glad you're a chill person. The world needs more people like you. Maybe you could teach others how to be more chill.
5. I guess youre just a forgiving person...
Its kind of a good thing!? Forgive and forget..its the way to go.
I think if this girl did something really upsetting to you. you'd probably be mad enough to stay mad. otherwise its probably nothing serious...and youre lucky you can just brush stuff off, ya know!
6. not sure how I do it but I'm real good at holding a grudge
some one cuts me off in traffic and twenty years later I still hate them
if they do real bad crap to me then the hate stays strong and I keep seeking revenge for the crime forever
God forgives
I am not God
7. Well why would u want to cause yourself the stress of staying mad at her? What you are doing is better for yourself anyway..better to be dismissive..I mean, who has time for her BS, right?
I think you are doing the right thing :)
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