I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year, but he was a virgin when we started dating (I wasn't). All of a sudden, he just doesn't want to have sex anymore. I'm positive he's not cheating on me (doesn't have the time). Every time I mention it, he makes me feel guilty for emphasizing sex since he doesn't think it's the most important thing in a relationship. Is it stress (he's an engineering major) or what?
Answers:
1. Honestly, if you guys have had alot of sex, he might have just got bored with it. The best thing to do if its been a year of being together is sit down and just ask him. Good Luck
2. Not sure about this one. The only thing that comes to mind is he's afraid of getting serious. Perhaps school is just constantly on his mind, and if he got serious, then he might fall on his grades. The other thing that comes to mind is ... maybe he's afraid you'll get pregnant.
I would suggest you speak to him...that's the best I can offer.
Good Luck dear friend.
3. well..It probably maybe he is not ready yet or he just dosnt want to...Just try not to forse him...im not saying you do..just maybe he just wants to do that in a special night..like your birth day..
4. no its not stress, more than likely if your stressed nothing is better than having a night of lovin lol. Sex does help the relationship but is not always key so try and give it some time try not to hard to think about it and maybe once in a while slip into something sexy and kinda revealing and see how he reacts to it but dont discuss it.
5. maybe cos of stress his willy doesn't work. when a man starts saying that relationships are not only about sex - troubles in the pants.
6. He could be stressing. If he shows other signs of stress, it's possible. But maybe he's one of the few decent guys left in the world.
7. listen to me us guys are really sensitive about this so he's most likely is feeling presser cuz his gf is more experienced in it and doesn't want to disappoint
8. Maybe sex is not his priority right now but it sound like it's yours. You have more experience and have the expectation of getting it when you want it. Everybody is different so chill out. You will push him away if you continue stressing over it. Sex shouldn't be a chore but a natural occurrence. Support his goals and when its the right time you will receive what you want in full.
9. well as far as cheating goes, u can allways can find the time,
not to say he cheating, but if you want to cheat, its just that
fast..... it a lot of things that could play in to factor here, so
you need to find out if he is ok with sex... or its not what he
though it would be, cause he may feal hes not ready to keep up to you....
he may not be intersted any more?
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