im 17. my bro is 22. but v r not related biologically. he made me his little sister n its been a year of us being siblings like that. i had helped him to cope with his failed relation. he helped me as i had an abusive relation! im thankful to him because he made me a strong person.
but since 2 mths i'v been seeing a change in his behaviour. he wants to meet almost everyday. when we meet, he lifts me n puts me on his lap. i feel uncomfortable in public like that. while i rest on his chest, he drags my hand towards his upper thigh n presses it sometimes.
he once even kissed partly on my lip(by mistake, i think) whn he tried to kiss on d cheek,n v both pretended as if nothing happened.
am i thinking sick or do his intentions seem to be other than being a bro?
im myself confused, whether i luv him a a bro or something more than that. he is very helpful n cute. but he gets angry when i can't meet or if i can't take calls even for genuine reasons. what should i do?
please help!
thanks.
Answers:
1. He has developed feelings for you. If your not comfortable with them or unable to feel the same for him you need to let him know NOW.
2. let him know NOW before thing get ugly!!
3. He has feelings for you. How do you feel about him? The way your relationship has started as friends first is a good sign. That he made you his little sister says he feels protective of you. But that he gets angry when you can't meet or take his calls even for good reasons is not good. That is controlling, possessive behavior and might be a sign that he will be worse as time goes on and may even abuse you. Talk to a trusted adult and tell them about all of this.
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