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Should I or shouldn't I?

   
I went out a few dates with a man, we had fun, had things in common, and good conversation. However, he was also a pig and would ask me to touch it (his penis). I wouldn't and he would try to put my hand on it. I pulled away and him doing that made me feel like trash. Well, I haven't talked to him for 2 weeks and he calls. He said to call him anytime and that he is basically miserable. He said he will tell me all about it when I call. He has a bad knee so I'm thinking that is what he is miserable about. Since I am a marshmellow I feel sorry for him and am considering calling him to listen to his sob story. Should I call him or ignore him?

Answers:

1. Ignore him. He's a prick.

2. Ignore it sounds like he just wants some action off you. sorry

3. You had a few dates and he forced you to touch his penis? Forget him. Unless you don't care about your dignity and getting a little r-e-s-p-e-c-t. If that's the case, go ahead and call.

4. first off I am glad my ex is getting out there lol. Anyway with this type if you are not into it just let it go

5. Ignore him. What he did to you on that date could be considered molestation. He is a bad guy. And the fact that he is only calling you for selfish reasons after treating you so badly just makes me even MORE sure that he is a total jerk. Most likely, he is just trying to rope you into another date. He'll tell you his sob story, you'll feel bad, then he'll ask for a pity date, and because you feel bad you'll say yes. Don't even start. Just ignore his calls.

6. dear if you do not want to do something do not let anyone force you into it..... you are a lady not his slave... tell him this..you are ok with having a good conversation with him and listening to all his problem but other than that you should not indulge in something that makes you sick

7. Ignore him, seriously he knows he found a nice girl in you and wants to take advantage of your kindness, don't listen to his stupid story, if he's gonna disrespect you by forcing you to touch him then that isn't cool. Let him be miserable. But of couse your an adult (assuming) and can do what you like just hope you make the right decission.

8. Ignore him sweetie.... These guys never change and they will use ANY sob story or flat out lie to get you back within groping range again. Don't feel bad as you did nothing wrong, he did something wrong and now he is grasping at straws to get hold of you again. You deserve much more than that. And you don't own him your ear to sob in. *hugs*

9. Why do you even have to ask? It is very obvious. Any man that would force you to touch his penis when you don't want to can't be trusted. What will he try to force you to do next? Lose his number.