What do you get attracted to from your wife.
Answers:
1. Kinky sex which is probably anything you don't want to do and he does.
2. Don't say no when he asks for some. Cook and keep him happy. You better be a good cook. The wise say the best way to a man's heart is through his stomach. lol.
3. Love him.
4. Well first of all dont let urself go suprise him dress real nice to catch his attention, wear sexy clothes where u call other mens attention to show him his not the only one who can find you attractive and if he really loves you he should find u attractive no matter what!
5. wear a fancy dress and let him see your legs and kiss him all day thats all and good luck
6. Honestly?
It's her gentleness and her kindness. A woman that loves her husband and plays her role as his "assistant", instead of his "boss" would go a long way to build a lasting and beautiful marriage.
7. Show up naked; bring pizza and beer; and don't complain about football games or any other sports on the TV.
Or you could get real.
He obviously married you for some reason, you already have his attention. Be the wife you promised to be. You can't control him 24/7, and you shouldn't try to. If you have some kind of an obsession, maybe you should consider some counseling before you drive him away from you with your crazy ideas.
8. Keep yourself looking and smelling good all the time,(not too much perfume though) and attract other men`s attention when you are out with him. He will notice them checking you out, then take a second look at you and realize how lucky he is to have you.
All of us men look at other women, it`s our nature.. but when with the wife a good husband knows that it`s an insult to his wife if he checks out other women while with his wife, it`s a respect thing. If that is why you are trying to keep his attention on you, he may need to learn etiquette and respect the fact that when he is with you he shoul,d not be checking out other women, When he is not with you , he may check out other women but not to the point of being flirtatious.
9. True answer..you can not.
Not that he will not be attracted to you at all times. There just really is nothing you can do to keep it. There is plenty you can do to lose it, but nothing you can do the other way.
If his love for you is true, it will stay.
10. Be yourself and not overbearing or clingy.
He married you to be with you , why would you think that he is not attracted to you now?
Keep yourself looking nice and be thoughtful.
11. I'm single, so maybe I should just zip it.
But here's my 2 cents:
Answer: It may not be possible. We guys are hard-wired to be visually stimulated, and there's a lot of beauty, face paint, and short skirts out there.
If he looks at a woman or two, don't kill 'im. Looking, to a degree, (not touching/acting) is natural. Rest assured in the fact that he has chosen you.
But here's the good news: Love and commitment are the ultimate aphrodisiacs. Nurture those and the sparks will follow.
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13. yea do all the "kinky" stuff that genius guys here suggested, but dont forget: always keep him worried that he might lose u, dont let him take u for granted.
14. Ask him what he likes. I like:
half nekkid
low cut shirts
skirts with slit front
lingerie
15. Don't get too fat, don't bit*h constantly, actually support him now and then and for God's sake don't get all sulky when you think the 'romance' has left the marriage. Gimmie a break -- how damn long do you women expect the dating to last? You could be married for 15 years to a man that is totally devoted to you and your family but if he doesn't bring you flowers or want to light candles before sex you think you have a pass to go sniffing around for 'true love' or some sh*t. UGH! The reason a man doesn't talk about his feelings is because they are PRIVATE -- even to you. The more you try to make him open up and be romantic the more he will resent it. Just be fun, act sexy to HIM and try to let him know that he turns you on (because that will turn HIM on!).
16. I'd have to say that right now, after 10 years and three kids, what keeps my mind and eyes on her is that she shows me affection. Don't listen to people like angel or bttrfly on here who are basically saying flirt for other guys attention. That whole jealousy thing is just prolonging your divorce. Seeing as how he is your husband, you DONT need to show him that there are other men.
Other than that, if you're going to dress sexy, make it all about him, like there aren't any other men around. Wear thongs and let him see you're wearing them. Let him remove one every once in a while. Wake him up at three in the morning if you can't sleep, and you want to get tired out. Have car sex. Tell him you need your boobies bobbled. Do almost anything except intercourse on a fairly regular basis. Feel like you're worth enough to keep your body in shape, for him, and yet not become a gym beeotch. Don't give him a reason to ever think another woman could ever give him what you do.
And the most important thing, and please pay attention here, is do not fall into the trap of thinking that being all close and sensual and talking and scheduling a "date night" every now and then is enough. That is what HE is supposed to do to keep YOU attracted to him. For us guys, it's all about how badly do you want us, physically. That month in between your date nights is the time he is going to be finding other women attractive, in a desiring kind of way. Especially down the road, when/if you have kids, and for some reason you're all tired, and he seems to still be attracted to you, it will not last for long if you don't make time for him.
I know its cliche', but for men it really is all about how much sex we are getting. And how eager is our woman wanting to.
17. try to be clean and fresh as many times as is possible.
have the hair nicely done, a little perfume, a nice skirt for him to take note. if he comments on the skirt, let him know you only wear it at home for him.
do things for him that he likes.
ask him if there is anything special that he would like. be playful and disarming.
when he is in the act, compliment him on his exceptional performance, even if its not true. let him know he has your number and how much you love him and how you love when he is in the well.
what you are doing is letting him believe he is he most outstanding man on the planet. when a man believes he is doing a good job, he is so happy you can't begin to imagine.
as you pump up his ego, observe and note what sends in into a trance. accentuate those things without running them into the ground.
very important: no nagging, cut down on complaints to the absolute minimum. you don't want him to feel that maybe he should run away to find peace.
be as sweet and nice as possible. soon he will begin to come around.
what you are doing is training him to keep coming back to you. training will take a few weeks. avoid doing things will make him unhappy.
once you have him trained he will be like a puppy.... play and sleep a lot. be prepared to put him asleep as many times as needed. he will keep coming back and begin to worship you.
18. My wife one time got dressed up in tight jeans and a top with alot of cleavage and we went grocery shopping in the early morning and she teased me the whole time... bending down to get something and rubbing up against me... it was also a turn on to see the old and young stock boys checking her out... we wound up leaving b4 we were done shopping... I guess what I'm saying is be un-expected
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