Well, she just made a myspace and she asked to be my friend and in the process she called me much dumber then she thought i was because i had forgotten to put my myspace on a privacy setting. So that sorta ticked me off and and I said: how smart did you think i was? and that made her upset or something and she said: i thought you were put up a grade so i thought you were smart. maybe you didn't know. Well that got me REALLY pissed off so I said: You thought I was put up a grade so you thought i was smart? That is a comment that is bound to tick off anyone. Especially someone with a reasonable IQ. Well she deleted me off of her myspace friends and i have sent 2 apologies to her over yahoo suggesting that maybe we should talk and saying i shouldn't have taken it so personally, and i have asked to be her friend on myspace 2 times and she won't answer anything. also my friend has a problem of spreading a different story around then what really happened so she might tell her mom and my mom
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1. 4 hours ago
might hear the wrong story and get pissed at me and i am going to call her tomorrow but what should i say and how should i handle her? she is a friend that is very high maintenance, thinks highly of herself, and can be quite rude and narrow minded. but then she can also surprise you by saying: oh thats ok. i guess we had a misunderstanding. but we didn't. i really value her as i friend and i can look past her quirks when we see eachother and have fun, but when she is not around and i talk to her over email, I find her the most annoying human being on planet earth. the fact is i really don't wanna lose her as a friend but i'm starting to wonder if our friendship is worth all the extra stress?
2. I have a friendship like that...eventually you just tune it out. Don't stress anymore...whenever they get like that just do your stuff and let them deal with it.
3. For now, let things cool down and play the bigger woman. Don't force anything, don't force her to talk things out with you yet. If she is going to spread a false story, let her. True friends and people should know you for who you are and won't believe garbage like that, especially if you counter her statements if someone asks you about it. When the time comes, after things have settled down a bit, work your way back into her. If she's still upset...wait a bit more...
Honestly though...she doesn't sound like a good friend...but I'm glad you have the ability to be friends with people like her. In the end, you hope that some of your own good qualities brush off onto them.
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