I have been with my boyfriend for awhile. We have grown close together and we love each other. I have watched him bathe before in the shower so I have seen him fully naked, but he has not yet seen me(only the upper half). I wouldn't mind Its just I don't feel that comfortable with my body, Its mainly my pregnant looking stomach and the hair on my body. How can I overcome my fear and shyness
Answers:
1. How could you get pregnant if you've never been fully disrobed?
2. If he loves you, then this won't matter.
3. so you've never had sex?
if he loves you, he won't care. BELIEVE me, guys don't care as much as we think they do.
4. When you're alone, start looking in the mirror at your body and point out all your good qualities and play them up. Your boyfriend must find something attractive about you to be with you so share in his freeness and don't stress so much about the imperfections. Everyone has something about them that they want to change but work with what you got and keep telling yourself that you are beautiful in every way...don't just tell yourself...start believing it. Confidence does wonders for a person's appearance. I have a friend that is very overweight but she carries herself like a size 2....always have her head held high and have a personality of a diva. Men flock to her because of her confidence. You swear she had a gold mine between her legs or something but its all about attitude!
5. I used to be self-conscious about my body too. The important thing to remember is that your boyfriend will think you're gorgeous, no matter how self-conscious you are about yourself.
6. joseph and mary did it without disrobing and nobody questioned them. men like nakedness of all kinds
7. Please let me know how you get over this b/c I am the same way.Stretch marks are terrible.But far as taking showers together if you wanna do that with him then get some dial body wash it produce alot of suds.Then get him in.And with the hair problem in which every woman has some,get rid of it.Buy some veet.Works wonders!Far as bed then hey buy a cute little something where you can still have the stomach covered.No matter what no one says when a woman feels insecure about a body part then she will feel shy reguardless.I have had this problem for 13 yrs but guess what my man is still happy! I had to find a way so you can and will do the same!Good luck!
8. I think the majority of women find things about their bodies that they don't particularly care for or wish they could change (I definitely have a little belly all thanks to the Freshman 15 which I think is now turning into the Senior 30, but that's a different story). But instead of focusing on my not so flat belly, I look at parts of my body that I am willing to show off at a drop of a dime (to my boyfriend only of course). So try doing the same. If you have a great butt, the next time you and your boyfriend are just relaxing on a Saturday afternoon throw on some sexy panties and cute tank top and just walk around the house like everything is normal. The attention that he'll give you will send your confidence through the roof and will then make your guy find you even sexier.
About the body hair. Of course you can shave but the smooth feeling only last for a couple of days. Depending on the area in which you are shaving, you may want to use a shaving gel that is designed for sensitive areas. If you want to you can also wax, whether you go to a professional or do it yourself. You stay smoother longer than you do with shaving, but DIY can be kind of messy. And again, depending on the area in which you are being waxed, you may not want a complete stranger to see parts of you that very few people should be seeing, unless you're Lindsay Lohan or Paris Hilton.
I don't think you have to worry about what your guy might think of you when he sees you au natural. Since he loves you, he'll find any "imperfections" perfect.
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