I am a 35 year old sigle mom. I have been throught five short time relationships after divorced. Every relationship that hurts me deep. And those all have similar issues happened to me. All the men started with strong passion and sweetness attitude for begin. Of course end of with that can't give commitment or freak out about serious relationship's truth. Those happened on me three times! The thing I'd like to get opinion from all of your wise is I knew they're truly likes me. Cause all of them still calling me and we're really became friends now. I mean true friendship no sex at all. So same like the man I dating right now but he just wrote me a " I'm sorry " mail at this morning. Said he felt getting closer with me and knew what I'm desired from days by days we're together. But the problum is he not feel happy about it. He is freak out! I really love him and knew he's a good person. Do you think I'll have that chance get him back? BTW. He's never married and he's 46 year old.
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1. You need to sit down with him and talk it out. I am also a single mother, but my partner has two kids. He also doesn't want a full commitment. I sat him down one night and talked to him honestly. I told him my feelings and found out what he wants. I find that you he talks to you about the situation then he does have feelings for you and then maybe he will let them grow further. Don't try to push him into anything that he does not want to do and just let the relationship grow for now.
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