ive been working with her for about 6 months but the place has alot of employees so i never really talked to her but out of the blue she ran up to me and asked how i was doing and started looking at her feet. weve been talking alot more recently. i think shes cute and nice but ive never had a girlfriend and dont want to embarrass myself by trying to ask her out and look stupid. i have no idea if she has a bf or anything so yea. what should i do?
Answers:
1. Talk to her sometime and has her if she wants to go on a break with you, take her out for coffee or something and talk to her. Dont use "ive never had a gf" as a excuse, you gotta start sometime!
2. talk to her
get to know her
ask her to go out for lunch or bring her food when shes super busy
then the answer will come to you randomly one day when you two are having lunch and she lets a hint slip..
girls arnt very good at keeping their mouth shut when they like a guy..
3. first ask her if she is not busy try to invite to go out and have a dinner..
4. I have to give my honest opinion on this one and I mean this with all do respect to you, if your in this job is important to you than it's not the best to date someone at work...sometimes chicks can get crazy and if you date her and it's ends nasty you may be in for a lot of embarrassment at your job. Think it through, try not to mix business with pleasure. Good Luck Doll!
5. life is way to short to worry about whether or not she likes you back...you don't have the girl yet so what's there to lose...1 you don't have the girl...2 if you don't ask you don't have the girl...so walk on over to her and talk about things you may have in common or ask her questions about what she enjoys doing in her free time and then ask her if you can do that with her sometime and there you have it be brave i know you have it in you deep down in there give it a shot what do you have to lose
6. you could talk to her...Ask her if she has any past relationships...If she dosnt have a boy friend..Then go for it..Ask her out..Give her some nice roses..Ask her to go some were special..If she rejects..At least she will know how you feel...
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