Evertime I think I meet some cool guys I think are cool, they steal from me or sell me out....
With girls, I can get things started but just can't keep things going long term. I always fall short somehow.
Answers:
1. 4 hours ago
Ci-er-ra...
I got burned when I was a kid and I can'tgrow hair over my left ear so I shave it all off.
2. 4 hours ago
BB,
I have to wear glasses, I only need one lense though from an injury to one of my eyes.
It's either that or wear a pirate patch.
3. well depending on your age I say its time to leave the area you live in and find new friends
4. your avatar looks exactly like my history teacher....weird.
5. Maybe you're just not meeting the right girls. Don't give up, you'll find the right one for you sooner or later.
As far as friends go, you're not alone...it's really hard to find a good friend. I have yet to find one that I can trust & sometimes I think it's almost better not having any. I had one friend for 8 years & she threw our friendship away over a guy.
6. U'll find the right ppl to mingle with dont worry man. As far as girls... I'll give the same advice I always give, dont go looking for the right one... they always seem to come to u somehow.
7. Join the military. Nothing creates brotherhood more than being in a life and death situation together. And the ladies just love men in uniform. No lie!
8. Better-off?
It might as well be.
9. no one is better off alone coz no man is an island. you may be doing something wrong. try to find out what turns the ladies off then make some adjustments. choose your friends, and dont trust too much
10. OK . seems like we have a case here. Well try to get rid of the glasses. Seems like your trying to hard and maybe dwelling on this situation to much and probably should be more into studies and god. But If I were you always keep your head up have fun be confident. You will meet a girl off gaurd most likely so stop trying so hard. try to get involved in a youth group you will love it and probably find your wife there and god true friends. If want to chat my email. dancewithbb@yahoo.com
11. noooo, big mistake a man always need that female touch in his life and by "touch" please get what i'm telling you no matter your age, if you have had bad luck with women well that's sad but you got to keep trying, it's men essential, believe me don't get discouraged you will find that special someone but if you stop looking then definitely it will never appear, women don't pop in front of you, just stay calm youll get youre turn, with the guy's that's different, try your best to pick good friends but i understand you (with the guys)
12. Are you comfortable and happy being alone? If not, then u do like company. We all need good friends, that social and emotional support and love, but at the same time, it is also healthy to be by yourself and to be your own best friend too, and to be comfortable in ur own skin, just by yourself. A balance is what is healthy I feel.
As someone mentioned, I feel the same - good friends are hard to come by....yet, if u mingle with people, u will find good people. But, then, they have to feel the same way. It has to be mutual. Be willing to test the waters with someone new. Dont hesitate. Ask them out, hang out with them, participate in activities together, invite them home...etc.
Ofcourse, take ur time gettin to know them. Be willing to trust but dont trust immediately. Many times, I have been burnt letting things out to the wrong person and regretting it. Now I am more reserved, but still try to be friendly.
Regarding girls, dont worry, there is someone out there for you. The ones u couldn't keep, weren't meant to be. Some people come in our lives for only a very short time. It's hard to digest..but it is better to come to terms with this about life. We will lose people.
Goodluck and dont lose heart....
Enjoy being by yourself....and at the same time...reach out to people...you will find life way more satisfying then.
13. You remind me of a teacher too, my linguistics professor. Anyway, go out and meet people and be nice. Ask girls out, don't use pick up lines. I suck at getting girls, but I'm getting better. Keep trying, find friends that like what you do.
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