so i have this really close friend and he basically acts like my bf all of the time
we hold hands while walking down the hallway
we hug hello and goodbye and stuff like that
he kisses me on the cheek
he says stuff like hey babe when he sees me (as a joke kind of)
when we talk he is always either holding my hand, has his arm around my waist or hes somehow touching me
so im confused are we just really close friends...or does he want something more?
Answers:
1. Then why are you letting him
2. XD .... thats too stupid.. XD.. go for it. if he says no then there is something wrong with for playing a girl.
3. What he is, is entirely up to you. But you two do need to have a talk. It's pretty obvious he wants more but you've labeled him as a friend. Your situation isn't that unique and has even happened to me. He's probably a great guy, so good in fact you don't even look at him as a guy anymore, he's a close friend. Buy guys are guys, no matter how nice or sweet we are. May not be all the time but there is one thing always on our minds wether is be the in the front or off in the back.
4. Hugging, kissing (even on the cheek) and holding hands all require one thing:
Active participation of both participants.
Sounds like you need to make a decision on whether you want this person to fill that role in your life. If the answer is no, then those actions listed above need to stop because you could be sending the wrong signals to him. The occasional casual hug is ok between friends, but most friends dont hold hands while walking around. He might see things differently than you and his view is being perpetuated by the fact you havent told him no.
If this has been going on for a while then cutting it off might be very hard on him so proceed very carefully.
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