When I really care about a girl I tend to be too jealous. I don't want to be that way, because it causes problems. What can I do?
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1. i got the same problem what i do is bite my tongue when i see something i don't like, but when its over the line i step in
2. Gotta learn to trust them... not sayin dat u should wear ya heart on ur shoulders, but u have to not think about it too much. If anything she does bothers u, u gotta talk it out with her... that way u get it off ur chest but ur not bottling it all up and letting it all out in an arguement.
Let her know u care a lot about her, and she'll respect that and not do things to hurt u.
U'll be aight
3. you may need to see a counselor because that really shows problems. It's good that you see your faults and want to fix them, maybe you have something in your past that's causing this problem.
God Bless and good luck with love and life!
4. sounds like you have some trust issues to work on. but that just comes with experience and maturity
5. jealousy = thinking low of yourself.
Build yourself esteem.
here is a site, maybe not the best, but it might help.
6. well just be yourself and remember she has life too. just let her talk to her friends and don`t think about it. i`m pretty sure girls hate guys that are jeealous and plus it cause too much problems anyways.
7. Realize she is not your posession; she belongs to no one but herself.
seek counseling, talk to your pastor or priest about it. they have some good information to help you.
I commend you for your honesty; however, seeking help on yahoo answers isn't going to be much service to you. You need to begin contacting real live people who can help you.
8. it sounds like you have trust issues. is she giving you a reason to be jealous? is she doing something wrong. if so get rid of her and find someone that isnt going to **** around. if not just take it ay by day and stop thinking into it so much.
9. You have to be more confident in yourself. Jealousy is very natural, but it is how you react to that feeling that makes the difference. Trust yourself to make the right decisions and trust that other person to do the same.
10. Work on your own self esteem and self worth. If you are feeling bad about yourself then you tend to think that others feel the same and will leave when they find someone that you "perceive" to be "better" than you are. Realize that you are just as special, handsome, vibrant, talented and whatever else as anyone else in the world.
11. Work on your insecurities. If she loves you cool, and if she doesn't. Her loss.
Honey that's life, ups, downs, wins and losses, but if your always insecure in the girls you like liking you back, you ll always be jealous, and they re not gonna be happy in a relationship with you.
Best of luck.
Hang in there..
Those are little things you learn from relationships in your life.
12. You need to be more self confident in yourself! IF you know she honestly cares about you, tells the truth, has No reason to lie, don't get yourself all worked up over nothing. You have NO reason to feel intimidated. It's all in your mind. Make up your mind you're really going to try this time, & just do it. The more you do it the easier it becomes. Try it, you'll like it..(^_^)
13. Jealousy can often be misinterpreted as mistrust or low self-esteem. Next time you catch yourself having a jealous moment stop and think about whats really making you jealous. If you have a valid reason then talk to her about it, if its merely an overreaction take a couple breaths and think about the situation at hand and what could REALLY go wrong.
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