And would it be right if the answer he gets is not one he likes to get mad about it and dump her
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1. it would be shady but if you wanna know ask
2. yes, but only before you are about to get naked with her...
to the responder below me..."SPECIAL NUMBER"? It damn sure is my business...I want to know how many people I am going to bump into on the streets that have been all up in ya!
3. This question is OFF limits for both sexes. The only thing your allowed to ask is if they are STD free or not. Their special number is none of your business.
4. It is OK, I think. But for him to dump someone over their honest answer is ridiculous. It isn't right. I mean, I know how many partners all my ex's have been with, and while some had outrageous numbers, I never judged them on that. They were still a good person, I enjoyed talking to them, and they were alot of fun (nonsexually fun that is)
5. yes its right to ask and I guess it depends on how far you are in the relationship, if her answer will affect the relationship then maybe you should ask that in the beginning
6. meh he can dump her if he's a gross sex crazed freak i guess. but if he is asking, he should tell her his number too. and if she doesnt like his number, she should dump his playing ***. ha ha..
anyhow, us chicks lie. whatever we say times it by two and add one. guys lie. what ever they say divide by two and subtract one to get real numbers.
7. yes ! u gotta know if shes a **** so u can a) use a condom if shes a **** or b) not use a condom and pull out or lose her number and not pull out.
8. How can you get mad at a girl and dump her, for what she did before she met you? How many women have you slept with? If you give me the wrong answer, I'm spamming your @ss!
-Knowledge24
9. only once coz repetition is annoying
10. Hey, if you're gonna sleep with her, you got the right to know, especially if it's a ongoing thing. But for a one night thing, just add to the list for the guy who will ask her.
11. it's a tacky question, but be prepared. you may get an answer you don't like. i don't think it's right to dump her for the answer. that would show immaturity and insecurity in my book. maybe suggest you both get some very important tests run before you move forward ...
i try not to judge people by what they've done in the past ... people make mistakes. sometimes, a lot of them!
12. it's only right if you have built a trusting relationship and feel that being intimate with her and being in a relationship with her is something you want to do, as long as the number doesn't affect your opinion of her. maybe she has a number that you aren't comfortable with, but if that's the case talk about her past relationships, maybe the number equals the number of serious relationships. In that case, she was intimate with someone she was serious with. Also, if you are gonna ask, be prepared to share. it doesn't just go one way, so openly talk about your number and your past. but don't place too much importance on that, it's the past for a reason. if you still feel uneasy maybe you guys can get tested for STDs together.
13. I believe its ok depending on what status you guys are! Like if you guys are dating, boyfriend and girlfriend, or bootycalls. its for eachothers safety to know because that just shows what kind of person u are if you get around or person you want to introduce to parents. If its out of the blue its inapproriate!!
14. no its not rite cuz if you are goin out wit some 1 u shold b wit them for who they are and not who they used to be .... becuz the past is the past and no matter what you can not go bac and change that so like they say some things are better off not knowing so its wrong to ask they are who they are and nobody should be judged for wanting and pleasing there needs turn it around on yourself would u want to let them know how many girls you have been with cuz if they know they would only think u are after 1 thing so think bout it becuz if u ask u kno u will never hear the rite anwer and you will never be happy in ur life cuz u cant let go of the past
15. I dont think its wise to now the number because if its a number you dont like you will be so distracted by the number you wont be able to focus on her true personality and you could lose out on what could be a good relationship
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