Let's say you don't have a boyfriend, and you're outside or shopping at a store. You met a guy who isn't really handsome but looks "okay," and has good manners and seems like an interesting guy. You can feel that he is not a bad guy from talking with him for a minute.
If he asks you out in a polite manner, would you be willing to date with him?
Answers:
1. 4 hours ago
asking out for a dinner to get to know each other better?
2. Nope, I wouldn't feel safe.
3. Why not? There is nothing wrong with meeting new people, maybe hit it off and something good happens :-).
4. I'd say "how bout we go on a date or something before i acutally call you my boyfriend." u know, just to get to him a little better.
5. Id go on a date and then choose if i like the guy
6. uh no. you know who hangs outside shopping centers? creeepy stalker guys!
7. I would meet him in a public place, like meeting at a coffee house for a mocha.
8. Nope. only after a few conversations and then we meet in a public place.
9. you jerk....stop scaring the ladies....
i never asked a girl out before knowing that the answer was going to be yes!
if you are not sure, well, the answer will likely be NO....best of luck
10. My experience is that if you don't at least make some primary effort to get to know them, they think you are shallow and only asking them out because of the way they look (why else would you be asking a girl out that you never met or spoke to before?).
11. One never knows. If many depraved people out there are people one knows, maybe just maybe, someone you meet is a normal decent man.
An aunt of a friend of mine met his husband in an accident.
12. Dear,
Unfortunately human beings are not like chocolates which you can taste in a minute and decide whether you like or dislike it. Human mind is a complicated, comprehensive and at times confused mechanism. You never know the intention of this pretentive good Samaritan. So my advice is to stop at that stage and give a hearty bye to him.
13. girls these days are a bit skitish of ppl cuz of rapist who are charming and interesting so i would be more inclinded to ask for like double dates or if you and a mate can hang out with her and a few of her mates in a very public place like a cinema and stuff
14. I would when I was single I was equal oppurtunity. If you appeared nice it was woth a shot
15. Mostly not, I kind of want to actually like the guy if I got out with him. It would seem kind of weird to date someone you don't even know. I don't want to date him out of pity or because he seems desperate asking. It would seem rude to date him for those reasons.
16. if i was feeling you, and you were cute (not the normal sense, but in your mannerisms towards me), and you had confidence while asking me, then yes.
17. Actually, there's nothing wrong on that especially if he politely ask you. But .... it also doesn't mean that ... you have to grab the opportunity.
You have to consider many things like:
- What he will think if you will say 'yes' on the first invitation.
- Guys will never forget that. In the future.... surely, he'll gonna slap it on your face that you had accepted his 'first' invitation.
Believe me. They are very good observer.
You can politely decline his invitation by saying: "Oh, how I'd love to. But, I am really having hectic schedule today. Maybe we can have it some other time or tomorrow maybe?" (hehe).
Enjoy and take care.
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