My husband accused me of something I didn't have any part in. Now he knows the truth. I understand why he treated me so poorly when he thought I had done it but now that he knows the truth why won't he admit he was wrong for getting drunk and punishing me for something I didn't do????
Answers:
1. 4 hours ago
Well, if you ask someone to say they are sorry does it really mean anything anymore????
2. Leave him. What a jerk.
3. He could be ASHAMED of his behavior?
4. Maybe he figures that if he said it when he's drunk. you'll forgive him, because it was "just the alcohol talking"
5. Stubborness and pride. Kill him with kindness, and there's no way he can continue on like that.
6. he probably ashamed of how he treated you when he did not
beleive you. and you know that men will never admit that they
are wrong. but he know what he did and how he treated you.
i would just let it go. he will never say he sorry not in words.
7. Sounds like a pride thing. Or a control thing.
8. ask him to apologize sweetie, you are being just has stubborn as he is. if its bothering you that much talk to him its called communication use it. he cant fix something if he doesnt know that something is wrong. get over yourself and talk to that man. you are being childish. grow up you are a married woman now and you should know how to communicate your feelings to your husband by now. GodBless
9. Probably because he's mad at himself. Let it go. Tell him you forgive him and move on to more important matters.
10. It is the man ego that is preventing him from saying "I am Sorry" .... do not worry he will say it to you when he is drunk again.. then he might even cry to you...
11. he is prideful...my wife while she will say , "IM sorry" is VERY slow to forgive...so..it is a pride thing more than anything else..
12. Getting drunk and punishing you? What the he** is he , a disciplinarian who enjoys taking advantage of naive women? Screw the apology, throw his a** out!!
13. SORRY,im sorry maybe ame should explain y i was upset
14. Because he doesn't care to say i am sorry, i think. And you can't make him either. He is probably an *** and you have to get use to it. I hope he will say he is sorry tho.
15. First off, I do believe in the gender language barrier. When my man is sorry, he doesn't say the words but he will remember to put the toilet seat down for a week and cap the toothpaste and rinse his plate, etc. All the little things he knows irritates me when he usually forgets.
Your man got drunk and PUNISHED you? That is a different story entirely if he was abusive. I don't care what his excuse was! Do you get "punished" often?
16. Some men are like that. You just need to understand him. Some men are naturally sensitive and knowing when they have "wronged" their wives and apologises.
Some men are built in such a way that they know they're wrong, but the wall inside them prevents them from saying sorry.
It's not necessarily a bad thing. After all, you cant expect everybody to be the same.
17. to the 2nd part of your question...Yes, sometimes we have to :"teach" people what they should be doing by asking them for apologies and other things as well. Sure, he was wrong,but, some people have poor people skills and still cannot admit they were wrong...good luck.
18. he's a drunk. leave him now
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