after a long while and a lot of hits and misses, i finally got a chance to talk to this beautiful girl in my chem lab and it all went gr8. we talked about the test we just got done taking and then from there we talked about alot of other stuff. i even walked with her to a few places talking. i ended the conversation early even though i didnt have to so i could make her come back for more and i even gave her my phone number because there are alot of events this week that she might attend that im going to and i said that she should give me a call if she decides to go to some of them. she didnt call me for the one today but she said she might be really busy. she was there tonight and she came up to me without me looking at her or doing anything and i got to talk with her for a bit.
so overall i think it went good. so what do i need to do now?
Answers:
1. Good job. It sounds like you have some 'game'. To keep conversations going, think about a story about times in your life. They could include the happiest you've ever been, your favorite place and why it is your favorite, your most embarrassing moment, and so on. Tell the story to yourself often enough that it comes along smoothly, but not so often that it sounds rehearsed.
Keep in mind some hypothetical questions. Some of my favorites are, "if you could have any super-power, what would it be?" "Where in the world would you like to visit if money were not a problem?" "What is your happiest childhood memory?" "What is your favorite part about Christmas"? Etc.
Notice that everything is positive. If she relives these positive emotions with you, she will tend to associate them with you. If you have a hypothetical question for her, make sure you have an answer yourself.
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