We have gone to the same church together for along time we never really talked there, but we ended up going to the same college, now we are hanging out a lot more. After a lot of crap from friends about if we were dating or not we had a conversation that ended with we are going to just be friends.... but i still wonder i do get some special attention, and the occasional smile, and she defends me a lot around other people.. but she still doesn't sit close to me, and still acts very quiet when we are having conversations.. Her friends still pick on her about it and one of them told me out of the blue that her parents do like me.. I don't want to ruin a friendship by trying a relationship... Any hints, about her, or what i should do?
Answers:
1. 4 hours ago
When her friends tease her she gets a weird smile, then does nothing...
2. ask her about what she does when you don't see her
3. i think she has the smae question as u...she wonders if u only like her as a friend or not
4. i am having the same problem but she is most likely only wanting a friendship. she sees u as one of her best friends and if u attempt a relationship she might or might not accept it. she might try to keep da frienship goin and she might pul away completely.
5. Listen to me. It seems like you really like this girl srew a freindship and try to screw her. GOOD LUCK
6. I've the same question.....sorry No answer from me......let's learn together on this one. Find a non-direct way to ask if something like that would work that's what I've done so far...but then I asked a direct way and still no real answer. Me and one of my boyz going through the same...excepts he's actually making progress ( or at least something like that).
7. If you have any friends that also know her ask your friends to ask her about you. My friend was in the same situation as you, i had to help him ask the girl. In the end the girl did like him, but my friend never had the guts to ask her out. What im trying to say is you should try getting close to her( sitting beside her, that kinda thing). What are her reactions to her friends teasings??
8. Dude. I used to be just like you. I can tell you are a nice guy. So am I. But there are certain "side effects" that us nice guys have. And guess what, they make girls almost always see us as "just friends". Yup that was me. Then I read some material from a guy named David Deangelo. I'm not going to give you any advice because there is just too much to write in here. If you're interested, email me and I'll tell you more about it and where to get it. OK I'll give you 1 piece of advice... if you ARE in the friends zone, you need to get out of it. Women aren't like men, they see guy friends as...friends. Not like us men who see chick friends as friends that we wouldn't mind hookin' up with at some point maybe. You need to create the feeling of attraction within her for you. Otherwise, you'll just be holding hands with your FRIEND.
9. i have gone through the same dang thing, lol. in my experience, we hung out all the time, talked all the time.. but.. she we agreed that we didn't want to ruin our friendship...
back to your situation..
there is a good chance that she does like you.. but is scared that if yall were to try dating.. *knock on wood* and yall were to make a turn for the wrong.. yall wont be friends any more... then lose out on an awesome friendship between the two of you.
or.. possibly she doesn't want to rush into a relationship just yet.. so you can keep talking to her, in hopes of it developing further, but listen to her and feel her feelings.
it's a tough decision to make, but i believe that it'll work out for the best!! =D
good things DO happen to GOOD people!
best hopes and wishes to you and your lady
enjoi
10. 4 hours ago
When her friends tease her she gets a weird smile, then does nothing...
11. ask her about what she does when you don't see her
12. i think she has the smae question as u...she wonders if u only like her as a friend or not
13. i am having the same problem but she is most likely only wanting a friendship. she sees u as one of her best friends and if u attempt a relationship she might or might not accept it. she might try to keep da frienship goin and she might pul away completely.
14. Listen to me. It seems like you really like this girl srew a freindship and try to screw her. GOOD LUCK
15. I've the same question.....sorry No answer from me......let's learn together on this one. Find a non-direct way to ask if something like that would work that's what I've done so far...but then I asked a direct way and still no real answer. Me and one of my boyz going through the same...excepts he's actually making progress ( or at least something like that).
16. If you have any friends that also know her ask your friends to ask her about you. My friend was in the same situation as you, i had to help him ask the girl. In the end the girl did like him, but my friend never had the guts to ask her out. What im trying to say is you should try getting close to her( sitting beside her, that kinda thing). What are her reactions to her friends teasings??
17. Dude. I used to be just like you. I can tell you are a nice guy. So am I. But there are certain "side effects" that us nice guys have. And guess what, they make girls almost always see us as "just friends". Yup that was me. Then I read some material from a guy named David Deangelo. I'm not going to give you any advice because there is just too much to write in here. If you're interested, email me and I'll tell you more about it and where to get it. OK I'll give you 1 piece of advice... if you ARE in the friends zone, you need to get out of it. Women aren't like men, they see guy friends as...friends. Not like us men who see chick friends as friends that we wouldn't mind hookin' up with at some point maybe. You need to create the feeling of attraction within her for you. Otherwise, you'll just be holding hands with your FRIEND.
18. i have gone through the same dang thing, lol. in my experience, we hung out all the time, talked all the time.. but.. she we agreed that we didn't want to ruin our friendship...
back to your situation..
there is a good chance that she does like you.. but is scared that if yall were to try dating.. *knock on wood* and yall were to make a turn for the wrong.. yall wont be friends any more... then lose out on an awesome friendship between the two of you.
or.. possibly she doesn't want to rush into a relationship just yet.. so you can keep talking to her, in hopes of it developing further, but listen to her and feel her feelings.
it's a tough decision to make, but i believe that it'll work out for the best!! =D
good things DO happen to GOOD people!
best hopes and wishes to you and your lady
enjoi
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