Met a guy, physical attraction is great, conversation as well. makes me laugh, but not sure he is positive what he wants to do with his future...he didnt finish college, but works and is focused, yet he seems unsure. ( friends or family would probably tell me i could do better. but i'm drawn to him. ) me on the other hand, i've planning for my future with specific things in mind, know where i'm going. think i may want a relationship with him, but is it a bad idea to get involved when i dont know what direction his life is going ?
Answers:
1. be honest and ask him where he wants to go. with his life and with u.then tell him why u want to know
2. I would key his car and cut up all his clothes. That'll show him!!
3. If he has a job and good work ethic and treats you well, then what is the problem. It's not easy to find a man who works steadily.
How do you feel about him? Do you see a future here? If not, move on.
4. let him sponge-off you for a few years and then you will know what to do. also don't have kids
5. Maybe he isn't like you and doesn't know exactly what he wants to do yet. This isn't a deterrent in my book, not when you say he works hard and is focused. Do you think the love could be there? Thats the question I would ask myself. Life has a way of sorting our directions out by itself. He could end up running the place he works at now and making loads of money or he could go back to school when he knows exactly what he wants. Any thing could happen. Love, on the other hand, is alot more difficult to direct and doesn't usually come with a plan.:) In my opinion...If your direction is toward him and his toward you, I would get involved:) Good Luck:)
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