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I've been dating this guy I work with for about 2 weeks and he told me he loves me. I don't feel the same how do I let him down with out coming off like a bi**h?

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1. 4 hours ago
I'm not trying to make it more than what it is I enjoy what we have the way it is. I don't want a relationship nor do i want to fall in love with him.

2. Say "I really like you too." I know it sounds a little mean, but it gets the message across. If he asks you why you didn't say that you loved him back, just tell him that you need more time to get to know him and it will come later.

3. Tell him that even though you have strong feelings for him, you are not 100% sure you are in love yet, and would like to take things slower.

4. Just say, I'm very flattered that you say you love me and I wish that I felt the same but I just don't. I would rather just be friends.

5. I would say something along the lines of: "Love is a very serious matter to me. I do enjoy spending time with you but it seems too soon to have such strong feelings. I KNOW you can understand that." Hope it helps.

6. 2 weeks is not long at all to get to know someone, see their faults and love them anyway. He is infatuated with you. Tell the truth; let him down easy but tell the truth. It's better he know now than later. Good luck!

7. Hey, be honest with him and let him know that you enjoy (if you do) dating him, but that you are not ready to commit to a serious relationship with love ties. Tell him that you are flattered, but that you want to use caution in becoming more serious. If you like the guy, you might encourage him by saying that he will know when the feeling is mutual. Guys really expect too much too fast from a girl - most are interested in the physical aspects of a relationship, so don't tease him too much in that direction if you don't want the consequences of his affections. Don't feel rushed to fire up any feelings and good luck in cooling this guy off.

8. I've been in the same situation. I told the guy that saying "I love you" is a big step, and something that is really important. I told him that I wanted to make sure I meant it before I said it to him.