Well i've been in alot of situations where a girl i like or a good friend that i know has been down w/ whatever drama is happening in their lives and i always end up sitting there quietly looking at the floor and stressing myself on thinking about ways to cheer her up.
if theres any advice or personal eperience that you might feel like talking about then please add a few lines. thanks =]
Answers:
1. Put their situation into an inspiring story or into a joke you know what I mean
2. nothing does the trick like receiving flowers with a sweet little message attached.
3. If you really care about her and you really want to help her then sit down with her and ask her what is wrong and make her feel comfortable and like you are interested in what she is saying if you keep going hopfully you will get a good response and make her feel alot better than she did.
4. lol i get that sometimes
all i do is strike up a conversation that would make the both of us happy and laugh
5. let her know your there to listen. but only if you want to, because if you don't then she will be able to tell and it won't help either of you. you have to really care. remember that it's fine for her to be upset. let her be mad or sad or hurt or whatever. maybe after shes done talking then she will be ready to laugh at a few jokes. she might not even need advice, just someone to listen to her.
unless its stupid drama that she is creating. then just forget it. let her gossip to her girlfriends. lame.
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