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I HATE showering - I am twenty-four years old, have a boyfriend and slack on my personal heigene?

   
I hardly shower, I have gained a hundred pounds, no pants fit me so I wear pajama pants ALLLLLLL the time, and kinda stink of this natural odor that I hope he is not fully able to smell. I was good looking, but now all has gone to the dogs. My boyfriend still sticks with me because he is such a softy. Fortunately he has not really told me anything TOOOOO mean.... only ocassionally, such as every two months, that I am FAT. but he says even if I still weigh a thousand pounds, he will still love me, although he hopes that doesnot happen. Tell me what you think. Dont be afraid to me mean either. Maybe that will help me see in a dif. perspective. thanks.

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1. you sound like a liar.. but if this is true you are disgusting and keep away from my PC cuz i can smell you from here!! ewwww of course she is in depression look at the life she has chosen to live.. get up take go shopping buy shampoo conditioner heaps of cleaning products.. take a shower clean your house spray some perfume do some make up if you haven't taken a shower in ages your armpits god knows SHAVE!! believe me you will feel better. no need to go to a doctor do what the rest of us do and you will be fine

2. You sound depressed. That could be why you dont have the motivation to do these things. See a Dr.

3. You sound like you are in a deep depression of sorts. Why don't you go to the doctor's and tell them this. They can give you meds to help combat this all, all we can give is insults, ewwww's and tell you to clean up your act. Seriously, go to the doctor's real soon.

4. you SHOULD and NEED to shower daily, whether or not you can smell yourself others can and its very unhygenic and kinda gross. if you need help with your weight get a personal trainer or a gym buddy and get up and get moving and find a healthy eating environment or club for motivation. none of us are perfect but im sure your bf would be happier if you took care of yourself a little bit whether he can admit it or not, also you should take pride in how you look and want to look good. also you will feel a million times better when you are moving and eating healthy with the weight falling off, you will have more engergy, your skin will look better and by showing you will smelll better.

5. Try taking a bubble bath. They make you feel pretty and they smell and feel really, really good. Plus, bubble baths are good therapy when you're feeling down. They make you feel really soft and girly. And they are sooooooo relaxing. Go ahead treat yourself to a bubble bath.

6. could you describe your "kinda stink of this natural odor" a bit more :( and do you wear your pyjamas (ALLLLL the time) cause they are stuck to your skin! If so soak in a bath and they will slough off of your body hope this helps