I'm so confused. I've had a crush on this guy for two/three weeks now, but before now he had a rude gf who treated him badly. Wellll...I added him on myspacea week ago and he accepted. And since he has 4 classes with me, I should hope that he AT LEAST knows my name. I'm glad he's single, but I'm afraid. I want to get to know him better before one of his other friends who are girls starts going after him. ;[
But I don't know how. We've never talked, so I commented once saying hi, and another time (but it was after too late) when he needed helpwith hw. Do you think he actually wants to be friends (or more, i hope) or did he just randomly accept that friend request (because i have been rejected by classmates before)? And how should I approach this situation? <3
Answers:
1. Just start a conversation with him. It might be easier to bring some of your friends to talk with him too so you don't get so nervous.
2. you can send him a mess on myspace if thats easlier. Alot about life is taking chances ... wahts the worst that can happen?
3. approach it with caution. you never want to get hurt from a silly crush. you should try & be friends with him, that's always the first key!!! then it will progress from there :)
goodluck!
4. hi honey wow, tell him how you feel after a week or so but develop a frienship, and tell him you've admire him for a while. take care and stay in school.
5. Talk directly to him.
Try not to fumble or sound too cool.
Just be yourself, ask him out for a coffee.
Maybe he's a jerk?
Just don't jump in.
Talk to him, see what he's like.
Start it casually, and when you are sure, make your move.
You are being too timid.
Ask him out.
6. i think he excepted on perpose but i think he really only wants to be friends if u want him to be more for for it and dont just for some other person to get him
7. Well you will never know, until
you ask him out.
You should invite him over
sometime for dinner, or to watch
a movie. :)
8. k that happend 2 me exept i was the person who had the crushee and at first she sadi hi then we talked and became good friends thne ovr time we began goin out for 1 month an a half so become good friends first then work ur magic 2 da top
9. Meet him and share your thoughts and concerns with him.
If you get a positive response, proceed further.
10. this is quite ironic. i was in the exact same situation, minus the crazy ex, and it was only one class. not four. well, leave him alone for awhile. i made the mistake of trying to talk to him too much, and now i think he thinks i'm obsessed with him or something, which i'm not. i kind of hate him...hah, anyways- my point is that you should leave it at the ''hi'' comment. did he respond to it? if he did, did you carry out a conversation? pleaspleaseplease, don't make the same mistake i did, seem calm, cool, and collected. eye contact doesn't hurt though...
i wish you the best of luck. if it's meant to be, it's meant to be. that's how i've learned to look at it. there's some amazing guy out there for all of us...we just have to weed out all the bad ones first to find him. :]
11. Well my friend has be going thow this. and she says u sould make the frist move. just start talking to him. if u r like truning 16 or anying age invint him to ur b-day party. qand he might make the move.
12. just ask him out. or make one of your friends ask him out for you..thats what i do
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