I'm so confused. I've had a crush on this guy for two/three weeks now, but before now he had a rude gf who treated him badly. Wellll...I added him on myspacea week ago and he accepted. And since he has 4 classes with me, I should hope that he AT LEAST knows my name. I'm glad he's single, but I'm afraid. I want to get to know him better before one of his other friends who are girls starts going after him. ;[
But I don't know how. We've never talked, so I commented once saying hi, and another time (but it was after too late) when he needed helpwith hw. Do you think he actually wants to be friends (or more, i hope) or did he just randomly accept that friend request (because i have been rejected by classmates before)? And how should I approach this situation? <3
Answers:
1. I say you give a occasional hi. that'll always work
U remind me of my friend Jennifer Smith
2. you need to cheat on his ***...im talkin down town!
3. maybe you should flirt with him a little either over my space(which is way over-rated) or at school...if he responds and flirts back then maybe hint at him that you would like to be more than just friends
4. My advice would be not to get your hopes up, some people on myspace accept friends just for the heck of it, without even knowing who they are. I'm sure he knows your name, and maybe he has noticed you, but you won't know until you make a move. Don't wait on him, and if you are rejected, don't take it personally, there are plenty of other potential crushes out there, and plenty more that have crushes on you!
5. take a deep breath and look in the miror u look great your smart just play hard to get and be your self also try to make the best of what you have good luck
6. crap... this is the hardest q thats been thrown to me yet. try to be a little bit more confident in your self and talk to him. don't hit him with ur feelings off the bat, that might scare him. try to get to know him through myspace. then after a week or two then ask him.
7. if you really like the guy...you should completely ignore him and focus on how fabulous yooou are. when you walk into all of your 4 classes with him, throw your shoulders back, lift your chin up, smile like you are famous and everyone knows it. if he starts to look at you a little differently, smile at him like you do everyone else, then dont' let it phase you.Guys are alway drawn to girls when they are self confident and don't act desperate to date. you'll know when its the right time to strike up that conversation...if it doesn't happen fast enough for you...send out a bulletin (not a survey) that mirrors his interests and that requires a personal response to you.i hope that helps a little:)
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