Ive been seeing a guy friend for 6months or so. I guess were pretty much friends with benefits but it seems like more. Im totally sprung on him and im not sure he is as impressed with me. I know we have both enjoyed the way our "relationship" is so casual with no drama, but im ready to be official. How should i tell him without scarring him away. He divorced his wife about a year and a half ago and just recently moved out of their house. Is it too soon for him? Should i fix something thats not broken? hmmmm
Answers:
1. leave it alone dont scare him give him some more time if every thing is cool why fix that thiers nothing broke
2. sweetheart, i am very sorry but, you broke the first rule of friends with benefits. you fell in love.
a man will never date a woman who gives up sex as a friend, without a commitment. never. the story about the cow and the free milk is true.
if you try to get more from him, he will leave. he sees you as a toy. sorry.
enjoy what you have. or move on.
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