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Can I get out of the friend/therapist trap?

   
I have a really good friend I'd like to have a relationship with, but she has placed me in the friend/ therapist category. I don't want to kill our friendship with a stupid move, but i feel like my window may be closing. (she's starting to see someone new) is there a way out of the friend trap?

Answers:

1. You've got tunnel vision bro. Why not just find some other girl? If you want to give it a shot you've got to STOP acting like a friend to her. No more listening to her drama. Begin flirting and dating other girls which will raise your social value in her eyes. But really, you should only date girls that want you, NOT put you into the friend zone. Rod

2. i was in the same situation. there isnt any way to get out of it unless she decides that she wants you as something other than that. sorry man but the best thing i can tell you is to move on. find someone else to spend time with.