i moved here this summer
my bff here, likes the same guy i do.
the guy really likes me, and i really like him.
but my bff keeps trying to get him to like her b4 he asks me out sometime this week. =[
i lie to my friends here, but this guy will be my first bf if i go out with him.
its so hard for me to find a guy, because i have pretty high standards. =[
so many guys like me, but now i finally found one i like who likes me back.
should i go out with him or not?
i feel bad since my friend here has been likeing him for years and ive only liked him for a week.
what do i do if he asks me out?
yes or no? =[
Answers:
1. 4 hours ago
you dont get the main part though.
i have a HUGELY hard time ever finding a guy i like.
ive only liked, like 3 at both schools ive been to. =[
2. Say no. Friends come before boys. And besides, she liked him first.
3. nope, it would break your friends heart if you went out with him. and she wouldn't be your friend anymore. are you willing to lose her for some guy that you're just going to break up with eventually? If he asks you out just say that you'd rather be his friend.
4. Easy, what's more important you friendship or the dude who most likely wont last anyway?
5. She can't make a guy like her if he knows he likes someone else. Also you guys shouldnt be competing over a guy you know? But if this friendship is real the it cant be broken especially over a guy. so i'd talk to him and see how he takes it and you guys decide it together.
6. Go out with him. And I say this for a lot of reasons. Just a Few:
-He obviously doesn't like your bff if she has liked him for a few years and he doesn't like her.
-If your bff is truely the bff you picture her as, she should want what you want. And to make you happy as well as herself.
-First relationships are crucial to your relationships from then on, if you both obviously like each other then thats one hell of a step one!
Hope it helps!!
7. Welcome to the love triangle.
Well like they say you only burn your hand on the hot stove once. (We hope) Go out with him. Your friend doesn't sound like one either.
8. LEAVE HIM ALONE..NOTHING COMES BETWEEN FRIENDSHIP. OR THINK ABOUT THIS. IS HE WORTH LOOSING YOUR BEST FRIEND OVER. ITS JUST LIKE THE CODE OF ETHIC FOR BEST FRIENDS..YOU DO NOT DATE A GUY THAT YOUR BEST FRIEND LIKES OR HAS ALREADY DATED. THERE ARE PLENTY OF GUYS OUT THERE GURLIE..AND TO BE HONEST YOU KIND OF MESSED UP BY LYING TO YOUR BEST FRIEND IN THE FIRST PLACE..DONT LIE OVER A BOY SWEETIE..~HOPEFULLY YOU MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE..GOOD LUCK
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