so me and my girlfriend broke up yesterday...we dated 6 months and this is third time we broken up. we go to seperate schools and we havnt seen ea other in 3 weeks because we are busy. but when i try to plan stuff with her / talk to her on phone she made up excuses to not go/talk..she texted me last night saying she felt i was more like a "friend" now. and i feel we have fallen apart aswell. i told her thats fine and we could be friends then she replyed saying "same here i want us to hang out, your a part of my life and i always want you to be." I said i needed to get over her first, then she txt back saying y can't we hang out this is why i didnt want to break up w/ u i knew this would happen. Im not sure i want to date her again so she can dump me a forth time, ive put all i can into the relationship. what should i do? i still feel like i love her. by reading the txt messages what do you think she is thinking/ wants?
Answers:
1. I think at this point its over really. Its time you just make a clean break.
2. She probably doesn't feel like it's a real relationship that you two have, since you don't see her or hang out with her that much. If you really want her back (which at this point I wouldn't it just seems pointless to continue this relationship when all odd are against you right now) but anways, if you want her back you've got to go and surprise her. Do something special like show up at her school and give her flowers (or just drop them off at the front desk so she can come down and get them..) A surprise of any kind would be just what she needs to reaffirm that you're her boyfriend and you're really concerte. Not just a saying.
3. if you took her back after the first time then that's just your stupidity......if it's gotten to going on the fourth time then you deserve what you get.....dump this girl and find someone who isn't going to string you along at her pleasure just because she can.....otherwise, if you keep going back to her then you're just a pathetic little weenie......
4. it seems like shes over you. theres always soemone better out there
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