I'm going to skip the part where I say I'm good-looking, fun, ambitious and all that, because I don't want to focus on that. I just want to know how come I'm so bad with women. I feel so empty with this part of my life, and I always keep losing girls. I wish sometimes that I wasn't called handsome thousands of times over the course of a week to be reminded I'm not living up to my expectations. I've been starting to analyze myself and accept the person I am, and to never change myself because I can't help but be myself. But being myself has consisted of failure after failure with all the women in my life. My family notices the lack of women in my life too. I've always wanted to date and be the best person I can be, but I can never make it off the ground to actually get a first date. All I get are phone numbers and rejections, and I don't know how many more rejections I can take, since I haven't had one single success yet through six years of my life.
Answers:
1. 5 hours ago
In social situations, my heart races, although I'm social and friendly as anyone else and a confident presentator with charisma, I become deconstructed when there's a beautiful woman. But I always want to go after her, and never give up. I'm always looking for truths and advice to better myself, and risk another rejection to learn from mistakes, and now I want to know what you have to say.
2. Forget asking for the phone number! Ask for the date since that's what you really want. Humor is good. Everyone is nervous when first dating, if you relax things will work out. Girls can tell when a dude is insecure. Good Luck!
3. Sometimes, when things come easy for us, we take them (and life) for granted. Just look at Paris Hilton, Brittany Spears, etc. Since you're good looking, fun, etc., you may have relied on those qualities long enough that you're empty inside. If you aren't a genuine person, most quality girls will see through your facade and will dump you, so I suggest you focus on your inner self and not worry about looking for girls at all. When you become a more genuine person, the girls will find you.
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