Free Flirting Tips | Articles | Questions and Answers | Links

Why is this happening?

   
My boyfriend and I broke up (his choice, he's having major financial problems & wants to get it all sorted out before continuing the relationship). I still hear from him all the time. The other day he was upset because I was going to the pub with a friend, and his sleazy friends were going to be there. He doesn't trust them, but like I said to him all he has to worry about is trusting me, and I have more respect for him than to associate with his friends behind his back. But why does he care what I do? He ended things with me!

Answers:

1. because it's a big slap to his ego that you're going out and having fun and not sitting home and being miserable like he is......and you can believe it's driving him nuts thinking about who you're doing when he's not there to see it, whether you are or not....and nothing you can do to change it unless you want to sit at home and do nothing while you wait on him

2. He's just in alot of stress now and that's why he ended it.....he still cares for you ofcourse...Maybe you should ask him to be back with you again,tell him you want to be with him during this hard time

3. he sounds controlling and jealous, pay him no mind until he treat you like the beautiful oman you are with respect.