Is it ok to date a guy who is good friends with my ex? My ex and I broke up almost 8 years ago (we were practically babies, just 19 yrs old).
Since then he's has two serious relationships and I just got out of a bad 6 year relationship.
Also, my ex lives in Seattle and I (and his friend) live in Philadelphia...
Answers:
1. 5 hours ago
The ex in question is the guy i lost my virginity to. We are still friends and speak on the phone a few times a month. He's gonna marry his current girlfriend, or at least he says he is.
2. I would talk to the ex, but usually it is not ok
3. I agree with above... talk to your ex because normally you should not go there
4. I would talk to the guy first.
5. sure y not??
6. I don't see what it would hurt.Ask your x if there would be any problems with it.
7. Reverse the situation. If your ex were to date your good friend, a friend of the same standing as his friend, how would you honestly feel? I always try to put the perverbial shoe on the other foot to keep things in perspective.
8. it might be okay if their are no feelings between you and your ex anymore
9. You cant change who you have feelings for. It's been 8 years and the both of you are in different states. i think that it's not really what your ex thinks because he is moving on with his life and getting married so you can move on with yours too. but you dont have to hide it from him either.. lol
10. sugar sugar no you do not want todo what your thinking where do the surprise come in at. i look at it as a form of sharing. 6 years aint no short time give your self some breathing room. take a year and do you self are you serious your ex best friend nooo it sounds nasty be bigger than that.
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