Long distance relationship help?
My boyfriend used to live in the USA legally but he got deported back home to Panama a few years ago. We just started a long distance relationship. He will probably never be able to come back to the USA legally. I love him more than anyone ever, and he is my best friend. I want to be with him, but I dont know how to make it work! Is there any hope for us or should I give up? Advice, please?
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Picture of him for those who are curious.
Answers:
1. Well it depends....if he works at it, could he possible come back...what about you going to Panama? If you feel that this relationship is really meant to be, then you two would do whatever it takes to make this thing work.
Long distance relationships are the most difficult, because of simply distance can make it boring and those lonely nights become typical. If you feel like that there is no hope for you two, your best bet is to let it go. You don't want to be miserable and feeling alone.
2. well it is difficult to handle a long distance relationship cuz of the distance and some people who will try to "get in the way" but if you guys love each other enough go for it! there are times when you're lonely, but that's just gonna happen. maybe try those web cam things to help you guys keep in touch (kinda like seeing them in person) emails and IMs work too. even phone calls if you can afford the distance calling.
hmm that's all i can think of at the moment but if you wanna talk more about it sometime feel free to email me, i'm in a long distance relationship myself and my boyfriend and i are trying to work around some of those "people problems" at the moment.
anyways good luck :)
~Jaz
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