Will you pray for my marriage?

1. I will pray that you find someone else.

2. sweety get real and wake up and help him with this problem before he hurts u

3. yes

4. yes i will.

5. I will =(

6. sure I would! God Bless you and your family!

7. Of course.

8. sounds like we need to pray for a divorce

9. .He may love you, but he loves his bottle more. Get out now before you either end up dead during one of his rages or with 4 kids and unable to leave him.

10. Ok.

11. no. not my business

12. No. May as well ask a magic 8 ball for advice if you are relying on prayer to solve a tangible problem.

13. I'm sorry, but why is it that all women have a hard time leaving their men? Even when they know that theres no hope! ill pray for you thought, pray that you will wake up

14. Yes, I will pray for you and him, and I hope he gets better and everything works out. Good luck and God bless.

15. i will yuou can e_mail me at this user name i might be able to help you if you would like god bless ..?

16. Your in my prayers. and you need to have your marriage in your prayers as well. Get help for the both of you...stay strong and change will happen... he needs to get help and you need to be by his side. Go to your church or a local church. I do not know what state your in but if it is Maryland then Church Of the Redeemer has a Celebrate Recovery program but will help in addition to an addiciton. God Bless you and your family.

17. I am very sorry you are going through this if he does hit you i would call the police. at that point he will have to go to anger management and take drug test. I am going through a similer thing . I will keep you in my prayers but remember you should seriously go to the father and pray for your husband you will see results.

18. Speaker of experiance here, the rage is caused by the addiction. Even when he is sober he will get angry for no reason because his brain chemistry is being altered. I am very against divorce unless you or your kids are in danger, but based on my own experiance he has to hit rock bottom in order to realize what he is doing (he probably already does and can not control it). Try an intervention, and if that does not work you may have to seperate. And the longer you stay away from him at that time, the more he will hurt, and the more likely he will be to help himself.

19. I will pray that you find the inner strength to take care of yourself. Even if that means divorce. Be safe.

20. Love has nothing to do with your relationship. Please get away from him before he destroys you. His rages are from his drinking and unless he stops drinking, he will NEVER be any different and you are at risk of being really hurt physically AND mentally.

21. ~If prayers were answered, there would be no alcoholics, no drug addicts, no folks in jails or prisons, no abuse, no poverty, no illnesses, no wars, no problems. People have prayed for years to have some god solve their problems. It hasn't worked. You have to solve your own problems. Try Al-Anon for starters. Try therapy. But don't expect some mythical hand to sweep down from above and cure your husband. It's not going to happen.

22. No, prayer will not cure alcoholism and psychological problems. Your only real recourse is to get away from him as soon as possible and hope he gets professional help.

23. I will absolutely pray for your marriage and more specifically your husband that he loses the desire for alcohol and I know that when that desire for alcohol is gone the rage will also leave. I'm going through a very similar situation. People don't understand how you could stay with someone that's this way, but I do. You don't fall out of love with someone just because they have a problem. We understand that that is not the person when there drinking. They are different when there sober. And when you love someone you don't just walk away. All the best to you.

24. Yes of course I will. My dad is an alcoholic and my mom divorced him when I was little because of his problem. I'll pray he can come to his senses and work at getting better for you. I hope for you only the best. Good Luck.

25. i will but how old are u and how long has this been going on u can email me poohbeark19@yahoo.com

26. Lisa.... You are the one that stated earlier that your husband strangled you to the point of passing out tonight and you are still online trying to figure out why? Did you even go read the answers on your other question? Rage is due to Alcohol in most cases. In some cases, rage is just the nature of the person and does not need the alcohol. YOU cannot do anything for him. HE has to do it. HE has to go seek help. HE has to admit that HE has a problem. Another thing to think about... If the moods swings are getting worse, there is more than alcohol involved.... there is drug usage involved! Your husband has serious problems and those problems are not easy problems to just make dissappear.... The only way for this to be helped is if HE HE HE HE goes and gets help on HIS OWN. YOU on the other hand will be his punching bag for as long as YOU let him use you as a punching bag... Therefore, YOU can either sit here and wait for HIM to get HIS problem taken care of and possibly DIE in the process.

27. sweetie you need to pray for your husband and that he gets help soon. you also need to pray for strength and wisdom so that you can seek help for self. prayer without works is dead. you must do what you can in your power along with praying. seek some help for you and your husband soon sweetie. GodBless

28. Yes, I am praying for you right now....Lord I lift up Lisa to you in the name of Jesus. You know her situation, and you know what she needs and what her husband needs to bring healing and restoration and peace into this home. Please deliver this man from alcoholism and from his rage. Reveal yourself to him so that he can see a way out. Protect Lisa from harm and help her to find others who can be a Christian support net around her. Give her the strength to stay committed to this man if it is at all possible, and give her the wisdom to know how to keep herself safe--put a hedge of protection around her. I ask this in agreement with her petition to you, Lord, and in agreement with others who respond to this message. In Jesus' name, Amen. Are you in church, Lisa? Do you have some caring Christian friends that you can turn to for help? It may be that you need to move out or have him move out for a time if you don't feel safe. You didn't mention children, but if you have kids at home, you need to think about their safety and well-being as well. Find a Christian-based support group for families of addicts in your area, or an Al-Anon group either local or online. Talk to others who have walked in your shoes and can give you advice. Try to get him to go to AA, but even if he won't, you can still get some support from others in dealing with this. If he is violent, you may need to seek shelter with a friend or at a domestic violence center. I can tell that you want this marriage to work, but you also have to look out for your safety. You have to draw the line and stand up to him and not allow him to abuse you. You can't fix him--that's between him & God.

29. I was married to someone like that a long time ago; I had one toddler and another on the way. He was the nicest guy when he wasn't drinking, but after he had had a few, he treated me like crap, putting me down in front of other people, making fun of me, and so on. When we were alone, he would hit me on the arms and chest, throw me on the ground and bounce on top of me so I would lose the baby, rape me, then laugh about it. It finally got to the point that I knew if I didn't leave him, I would kill him and I didn't care. The only thing that stopped me was my kids and knowing that my mother would raise them. There comes a point in your marriage when you are married to someone like that that you have to ask yourself if he's worth dying for, because sweetheart, he's only going to get worse. The abuse and all that he is giving you is a power trip, that's all. He has to have power over you and that's how he gets it. You have to think about whether you want to live or die and if you choose dying, then you know you have to leave, because mentally sound people do not choose to stay with someone who is hurting them. I will pray that you make the right decision .

30. You please go for sex as usual.