I just wanted to know based on other people's experiences. I've been thinking about this A LOT, since the past few months and haven't been able to make a decision yet. My hearts tells me to stay in the philippines, where I grew up and where most of my family and friends are, but a part of my mind also tells me to stay here in the States, to get into a nice college. I've been thinking about this every single day. I don't know what to do anymore. My parents have been divorced since I was small. My dad wants me to stay here with him but my mom in the philippines tells me that it's really up to me where I want to stay.
Has following your heart or mind lead you into something that makes you happy/unhappy right now? Do you still regret it? If you followed your mind, do you think you should've just followed your heart?
HELP?
Thanks. I really need it. :)
Answers:
1. 5 hours ago
I am using both, but it's leading me to confusion and It gets harder to choose. It's so complicated.. :[
2. both...try to make both the advantage of the decisions you're making..
3. Heres the real question how can you make a deicsion with your heart without using your head or.. How can you make a decision with your head without using your heart you gotta use both
4. That's a hard one. It's a bit of both really.
I've followed my heart and my head for some big decisions in my life. Moving away from my family to a work opportunity, falling in love, following my dreams.
The truth is, it's up to you and only you. What do you want? If there was no one to be hurt in the matter, what would you choose? How will it be best in reaching your dreams and paving the way into your future?
Once you make the decision, don't look back, don't regret it...it's life, enjoy the journey. Make the most of your decision. don't just do something because someone wants you to.
5. Both and good luck.
6. they say that the brain was placed above the heart and that every decisions that you are going to make should be decided by the mind (brain) and not by your feeling (heart)... i would say that is partly true. because personally i made decisions using my brain and also my heart depending on the situations. but in most cases i used them both on deciding matters. in any decision that you are going to make, i would say you must always think it over. if it will be the decision of your mind then let your feeling (heart) follows. put your heart in whatever decision you are going to make. the important thing is you were able make important decision.. and if in the future, the decision that you made was not that appropriate (i choose this term over unsuccessful), just dont have any regret or feel guilty about it. you made an important decision that you and you alone can make. and no matter what happen, accept things as they are. as they say follow your heart, pursue your dreams. you could always be happy. again, in whatever decision that you are going to make, it is you and only could make that decision, however, regret not to whatever the outcome be.....be happy and be proud that you were able to make an important decision in your life.
7. 5 hours ago
I am using both, but it's leading me to confusion and It gets harder to choose. It's so complicated.. :[
8. both...try to make both the advantage of the decisions you're making..
9. Heres the real question how can you make a deicsion with your heart without using your head or.. How can you make a decision with your head without using your heart you gotta use both
10. That's a hard one. It's a bit of both really.
I've followed my heart and my head for some big decisions in my life. Moving away from my family to a work opportunity, falling in love, following my dreams.
The truth is, it's up to you and only you. What do you want? If there was no one to be hurt in the matter, what would you choose? How will it be best in reaching your dreams and paving the way into your future?
Once you make the decision, don't look back, don't regret it...it's life, enjoy the journey. Make the most of your decision. don't just do something because someone wants you to.
11. Both and good luck.
12. they say that the brain was placed above the heart and that every decisions that you are going to make should be decided by the mind (brain) and not by your feeling (heart)... i would say that is partly true. because personally i made decisions using my brain and also my heart depending on the situations. but in most cases i used them both on deciding matters. in any decision that you are going to make, i would say you must always think it over. if it will be the decision of your mind then let your feeling (heart) follows. put your heart in whatever decision you are going to make. the important thing is you were able make important decision.. and if in the future, the decision that you made was not that appropriate (i choose this term over unsuccessful), just dont have any regret or feel guilty about it. you made an important decision that you and you alone can make. and no matter what happen, accept things as they are. as they say follow your heart, pursue your dreams. you could always be happy. again, in whatever decision that you are going to make, it is you and only could make that decision, however, regret not to whatever the outcome be.....be happy and be proud that you were able to make an important decision in your life.
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