hi guys. my ex just got back from training for the army and i have never gotten over him since we broke up almost a year ago. the reason we broke up is b/c he dumped me for one of the biggest sluts in town. yeah. we hung out last night and today. now he wants me back and i have my doubts but dont know what to do b/c i love him so f*ing much and i can see that he has changed for the better and he makes me feel so alive and...yeah. what do u think?
Answers:
1. do what your heart tells you to do.. just be careful u don't want to get another heart break!
2. Don't totally trust him just take it one day at a time
3. Listen to your instinct. Be careful...
4. Take him back and take him back and make it fast!!
5. biggest town sluts usually win
6. You love him but if he love you he would not have cheated. I am sure you heard the saying Once a cheater always a cheater. I think he just want you for one thing and after he gets it he will leave you. please do waste your heart on someone who does not care
7. don't be stupid. if he is willing to do that one time, he will do it again. the army hasn't changed crap about him. There are PLENTY of other guys out there. you just have to wait. when you least expect it, you will meet the man of your dreams. This *** clown isn't it.
8. If you can forgive him completely and whole heartedly, and you trust him enough, take him back. Who knows. Maybe he left you because he knew it was going to be to hard to do, and if he left for a ****, then you wouldn't take him back. Maybe he was afraid you'd leave him while he was in training and didn't want that feeling.
9. RUN!!!! Don't do it!
10. Do not pass this opportunity up Miss. Wrap yourself around him and hang on for life. You cannot detour love within your life Miss. Let him have it. He has earned it.
11. If you think he has changed for the better than I say go for it especially with the situation I'm in right now in trust that someone has changed. But then again you shouldn't need a man to feel alive, so you might want to reconsider the reason for being with him. I'd say not to have sex so soon especially since he just got back for army training. You know how that is. Also if he slept with the biggest **** in town, He nrrd to get TESTED.Good Luck!
12. ok i am just going to say it. wat happens if he hurts u. and does the same thing. i think u sould not go out with him. he could be using u. belive me it happen to myfriend. he was using her because he like her sister. and she saw him making out with her sister.bye.
13. Yeah, my ex was just like that. Joined the army too, but actually never went to training. Lame-o. So anyways, ask yourself... why is he my ex? He left you for a h.o.e., what makes you think he's a different person after BCT?
I know what it's like to be in this situation, but my ex-fiancee made me feel like a wonder woman, and then he denied my being with him behind my back and stuff like that, and went off with the sl.ut. Few months later, he returns and wants to hang out and eventually get back together. Stupid me fell for it and the same crap started again. Each time we got back together, I figured he was a better person. He wasn't.
Guys like these don't change. The army has absolutely no effect on people that much. He might have matured since he's been gone, but I doubt his women-department got any better. Once a player, always a player.
If you do go back, you will eventually see what I was talking about, and then hopefully he won't ruin you emotionally for any future relationships. You don't deserve to be dated only for HIS convenience, and that's exactly what it seems like. A relationship is a 2-way thing.
Do what you think is right. I would not stoop as low and be made a fool of for the rest of my life.
The choices we make, dictate the lives we lead...
14. Some guys have to try different brands of beer, before they choose the one they like best. Better he sow his oats now before he wonders the rest what he missed and comes to resent you.
Above all, follow your own heart.
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