i m a 21 yrs old girl....been into a relationship with a guy for 3 1/2 yrs...4 months ago i went to UK to further my studies and due to the distance problemi felt that my love to my bf getting lesser day by day and my heart slowly went to another...a GIRL who care for me very much when i was there...so I broke up with my bf 2 mths ago...he was hurt
3 weeks ago i finally came home and my ex was waiting me at the airport with roses...i was touched...he did many things for me....and now i feel that i have regretted the break up.....and i told him...but the problem is....now my heart there is 2 person..my ex bf and the girl.....i cant make decision now
i feel that i dont want to lose my ex but at the same time...i cant fully into him when the girl is still somewhere in my heart...i still contact with both my ex and the girl
what should i do? i m really confused.....
Answers:
1. I think you should forget about getting back with the boyfriend. Your reasons for reconsidering are all wrong - it sounds like you feel sorry for him because he wants you back. It also sounds as though you are considering it because the person you really want isn't there. If you aren't as crazy about him as he is about you, you need to be kind to him and free him for someone who will treat him like a king.
2. its a little weird when u have a thing with a girl but that's fine with me...
anyhow... i guess you should follow your heart... you have all the time in the world to think about it... go to where you're happy, go to where you feel comfortable the most...
there can't be 2 people in your heart... there could only be one... think about what your ex has done and what your girl has done... which was meaningful to you?
3. I think you should forget about getting back with the boyfriend. Your reasons for reconsidering are all wrong - it sounds like you feel sorry for him because he wants you back. It also sounds as though you are considering it because the person you really want isn't there. If you aren't as crazy about him as he is about you, you need to be kind to him and free him for someone who will treat him like a king.
4. its a little weird when u have a thing with a girl but that's fine with me...
anyhow... i guess you should follow your heart... you have all the time in the world to think about it... go to where you're happy, go to where you feel comfortable the most...
there can't be 2 people in your heart... there could only be one... think about what your ex has done and what your girl has done... which was meaningful to you?
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