Im going to a halloween dance with him and im to nervous to talk to him please tell me potential topics.
Answers:
1. just talk to him like you would a friend.
2. talk about the costmes and halloween
3. this one is actually easier than you think. don't plan anything. and don't stress. people are people and he's nervous too. there will probably be some awkward moments because there always are when both people are nervous but you'll find your way. talk about what is right in front of you. talk about family, common friends, people around you, what you're thinking right that moment... even talk about how awkward any silence is... you'll both be feeling that and you can bond over that... you'd be surprised. just relax and be yourself. you'll be totally fine, i swear. you don't want to act other than how you are anyway... if things go well, he'll eventually find out who you are anyway. just relax and focus on enjoying your time with someone you obviously like. the calmer you are, the calmer he'll be. good luck and have fun.
4. You can always talk about interest rates, mortgage values, stock market, quantum physics, and Calculus. We guys love exciting topics like these.
Think. It's Halloween. Everyone's wearing costumes (unless people are trying to scare off others by dressing up as themselves). And dancing. There's bound to be plenty of situational topics you can have a good conversation with.
5. I say just go with the flow what ever comes up!
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