I have a friend since highschool, she met this guy during our college years... then they broke up and my friend engage in another relationship by then her ex-boyfriend strive hard to win her back but my friend just ignoring him. After one year we get a chance to have a communication after i invited him to my birthday (by the way we're also close friend) during that time i am a broken hearted so he gave some advise. We hang out and suddenly someone caught us and tell to my friend which that time she is the one trying to get him back but her ex-boyfriend already moved on, so What do you think I am betraying my friend to hang-out with his EX- BOYFRIEND?which i am not allow him to court me, i also clear to him that we just friend.
Answers:
1. If you're being clear that you guys are just friends, then it should be totally fine to hang out with him. Tell your friend that, and tell her honestly that it's nothing but a friendship. If she won't believe you, then she is the one who is overly jealous and paranoid. She needs to learn to move on.
2. what you need to know is your friend and her ex has already pass... is a history now, you and him is the current, recent, present ones... be clear that if he likes you and you feel comfortable with him, why not?
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