It's one of my friend's b-day party (she's turning 15), and its pretty big. The last party that i went to, I didn't know anyone and it was sorta hard to talk to these people that all know each other. I can't realy hang around her the whole party because she has to hang out w/ all thes other peoples too. Any advise?
Answers:
1. just be yourself and you wont look like a loser...
2. Actually, in this case, hanging around your friend would be a great thing to do. Your friend can then introduce you to her other friends. The other people will accept you due to your friend's approval.
Plus, you will be less tense when talking to others because you will always have your friend there to be your motivator. The mere presence of your friend around you will be enough to make you relax in unfamiliar social situations.
3. just be outgoing and be yourself. don't try to force conversations. it'll just happen. if all else fails, talk about the latest pop culture news...that's always a great conversation starter. as sad is it may be...you might as well, "so what about that crazy britney spears..."
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5. I think you are a great friend to put yourself in this challenging position! Most people (even adults) would not go to a party where they don't know anyone. You are obviously a pretty confident person and will probably do just fine. One tip I can give you that works for me is I like to ask people questions about themselves. It takes the pressure off of you to do the talking and people usually LOVE to talk about themselves and are flattered that you are interested in them. Then once you get to know a little something about them, you won't feel like total strangers and it might lead into more topics of conversation. Good luck and have fun.
6. Wear something great that's really different and try to stand out. People will notice you if you do so. And it's okay if you ask your friend to introduce you to some people that she thinks you'll get along with. Or you can just hang out with your friend, and you'll obviously be introduced to her other friends. Also, saying compliments like " I love your shirt" are great-they help start a conversation like "What's your name, what school are you from" and other small talk like that. Who knows? Maybe you'll meet someone you really like.
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