I was with him for almost a year but we have been friends for almost two years now. I have gotten to know him and I love him so much. I loved being with him because he maade me feel so special and he is such a nice guy. We broke up and it was mutual because one half of the relationship couldn't be in a relationship because of no time to be in a relationship.
I love this boy so much and we are still friends and sometimes I feel like he still wants to be with me and I do want to be with him but I know now isn't the right time.We talk all the time and he hints that we could possibly get together but I don't know. I tried dating someone else and that didnt work out cause I guess my heart was somewhere else.
I think about him all the time.
What do I do?
How do I learn to move on when I know that I can't?
Answers:
1. then do not try to move on because you will only regret it just tell him how you feel and y'all will more time and enjoyment together...
2. i'm kinda going through the same thing right now! i wish i knew too. i love him but at the same time i feel like we broke up for a reason too. he is now trying to be all friendly with me like we're boys or whatever and that's cool bu at the same time i still look at him as my man. i guess the best advice i could give is things happen for a reason and if it was meant to be it will be.
3. There's no need to move on. You love him & it sounds like he loves you. Get back together so you won't have regrets later on. Consider this--- how will you feel if he dates someone else & falls in love with another girl. If you care for him so much just figure a way to see each other & be happy!
4. Yes you can move on. Just because you go out on dates with other guys doesn't mean you have to commit to them or keep seeing them. Look to make friends, not boyfriends, after all, this guy is a friend too. They're the best ones to fall in love with anyway. I don't want to speculate whether or not he's messing with your head, but if he really wants to be with you, he will make that move. In the meantime, you need to be true to yourself and don't make yourself unavailable...by that I mean its OK to be emotionally unavailable, that has to run its course and its impossible to force it...in the meantime, don't close yourself off from other people. I've been in the same situation and there was a time that I would have dumped every bf I had to be with C if he showed up on my doorstep...after some time, actually a few years, has passed and I find that my heart has gone on. Yours will too...just don't rush it and try not to dwell.
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