my girlfriend has a secret the BIG ONE and should I tell her mine to just to make her not so shy
Answers:
1. Well, what is yours?
Is it bigger than hers?
2. with a big mouth!
3. Secrets should be kept secret. Don't spill them or it could backfire on you one day. Trust me.
4. What is "the big one" of a secret? Cheating?
It's always easy to do so over drinks, if you are of age.
5. you put on a shirt that says exactly what you said and you place banners across the halls, and you send everyone you know an email, then just change your name and skip town and no one will ever know.
6. blurt it out.
7. Just tell her straight, and then ask her what hers is. also it depends on the secret, if it's big, medium or small.
8. yeah don't be a baby. Your going to look back in 10 years and regret not doing it.
9. If you are comfortable telling her and know that she will still love and respect you afterwards. Trust plays a big role in this one. Make sure she knows you will not judge her and that she won't judge you.
10. it depends on what it is, but it's usually a good bet unless it'll make you into a completely different person than she thought you were. but if it's just exposing your vulnerable side then go for it.
11. it is no longer a secret if either of you tell - be careful - it cannot be untold
12. no man just make sure u want to know and tell her wut ever it is ull still lover her.....thats if u do love her...
13. there shouldnt be big secrets in healthy relationships, tell her that when your telling her yours, she should spill the beans then
good luck
14. if she told you hers then you should tell her yours. but be warned. secrets as "BIG" as you say can lead to blackmail and other stuff.
15. DONT TELL HER, THE ONLY WAY TO KEEP A GIRLFRIEND IS BY HAVING A WHATEVER ATTITUDE TO WHAT SHE DOES, FOR EXAMPLE, SHE WILL TALK TO OTHER GUYS AND YOU WILL GET JEALOUS, JUST DONT WORRY ABOUT IT, SHE WILL START HOOKING UP WITH THEM, BUT ATLEAST SHE WILL ALSO HOOK UP WITH YOU, NOW IF YOU GET MAD ABOUT IT THEN SHE WILL STOP HOOKING UP WITH YOU, SO TAKE MY ADVICE.
16. Like what kind of secret? even though you guys are close and you tell each other secrets, what would happen if you guys were not friends anymore?
17. If you know it's "The Big One" does that mean that you already know the secret? If so, now you don't need to share yours.
18. you dont...its not a secret if you tell anyone...you know better than that...just keep it a secret...
19. just tell her that you have a big secret too,but not the details.
20. by whispering or by saying it while laughing.
if hers is seriously that big even telling her yours may not do the trick. tell her that she can test the veracity of your friendship by confiding in you her secret.
21. Being open and honest is the key to any relationship. It needs to come from both sides. So I think if being open with her and letting her know that you are OK with it is going to help her with it, then I would do it. Good luck!
22. Duh, If you have any class, you don't
23. "The Big One".......hmmmmm...wonder what that could be?
Depends on your age, your relationship in general, and what you plan on telling her that you think can help with shyness.
Is her "secret" one that is eventually going to "come out", so that she eventually will have to tell it anyway?
In other words, you are not giving much info here for us to work with in answering your question......
24. Well, what is yours?
Is it bigger than hers?
25. with a big mouth!
26. Secrets should be kept secret. Don't spill them or it could backfire on you one day. Trust me.
27. What is "the big one" of a secret? Cheating?
It's always easy to do so over drinks, if you are of age.
28. you put on a shirt that says exactly what you said and you place banners across the halls, and you send everyone you know an email, then just change your name and skip town and no one will ever know.
29. blurt it out.
30. Just tell her straight, and then ask her what hers is. also it depends on the secret, if it's big, medium or small.
31. yeah don't be a baby. Your going to look back in 10 years and regret not doing it.
32. If you are comfortable telling her and know that she will still love and respect you afterwards. Trust plays a big role in this one. Make sure she knows you will not judge her and that she won't judge you.
33. it depends on what it is, but it's usually a good bet unless it'll make you into a completely different person than she thought you were. but if it's just exposing your vulnerable side then go for it.
34. it is no longer a secret if either of you tell - be careful - it cannot be untold
35. no man just make sure u want to know and tell her wut ever it is ull still lover her.....thats if u do love her...
36. there shouldnt be big secrets in healthy relationships, tell her that when your telling her yours, she should spill the beans then
good luck
37. if she told you hers then you should tell her yours. but be warned. secrets as "BIG" as you say can lead to blackmail and other stuff.
38. DONT TELL HER, THE ONLY WAY TO KEEP A GIRLFRIEND IS BY HAVING A WHATEVER ATTITUDE TO WHAT SHE DOES, FOR EXAMPLE, SHE WILL TALK TO OTHER GUYS AND YOU WILL GET JEALOUS, JUST DONT WORRY ABOUT IT, SHE WILL START HOOKING UP WITH THEM, BUT ATLEAST SHE WILL ALSO HOOK UP WITH YOU, NOW IF YOU GET MAD ABOUT IT THEN SHE WILL STOP HOOKING UP WITH YOU, SO TAKE MY ADVICE.
39. Like what kind of secret? even though you guys are close and you tell each other secrets, what would happen if you guys were not friends anymore?
40. If you know it's "The Big One" does that mean that you already know the secret? If so, now you don't need to share yours.
41. you dont...its not a secret if you tell anyone...you know better than that...just keep it a secret...
42. just tell her that you have a big secret too,but not the details.
43. by whispering or by saying it while laughing.
if hers is seriously that big even telling her yours may not do the trick. tell her that she can test the veracity of your friendship by confiding in you her secret.
44. Being open and honest is the key to any relationship. It needs to come from both sides. So I think if being open with her and letting her know that you are OK with it is going to help her with it, then I would do it. Good luck!
45. Duh, If you have any class, you don't
46. "The Big One".......hmmmmm...wonder what that could be?
Depends on your age, your relationship in general, and what you plan on telling her that you think can help with shyness.
Is her "secret" one that is eventually going to "come out", so that she eventually will have to tell it anyway?
In other words, you are not giving much info here for us to work with in answering your question......
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