I'm dating this guy.
and we've liked each other for a while.
and now that we're together
[it's been a week and a half]
he won't tell anyone that we're together.
like he's ashamed of me or something!
when people ask him..
he'll ignore them or give a smart *** answer.
just last week.
we were together at a football game
and someone asked if they were together
and he goes
".....sure."
so i kinda kicked him
and he goes "....yeah.."
i mean..
i shouldn't be with someone who's ashamed of me, right?
or am i just thinking about it too much?
or am i right?
GOD
HELP ME
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Answers:
1. you must try to connect more this person is not a long term person so connect or dump him
2. He's not ashamed of u he sounds like your average youn guy who just got into a relationship. if he had said "no" when he was asked if you were together than you should worry. if you are not comfortable with the level or lack thereof of commitment perhpas he is not the guy for you
3. There's something going on here....either he's just kind of embarassed because he's not used to going out with a girl and doesn't want his friends to laugh at him, or he is ashamed of you. Although it might be a little awkward at first, you really need to talk to him. A guy you're going out with should be proud and happy that you're going out with him, and make SURE that everyone knows. If he really is ashamed of you, dump his sorry behind and find a guy who actually deserves you! =] Sry I know that was kind of harsh...but it's true. dont ya think?
4. It's only been a week and a half take ur time
5. Ask him.
I really really really think you should confront him about this.
You don't want to dump him over a misunderstanding and you said it yourself, you shouldn't be dating someone who's ashamed of you.
Good luck to you.
6. He is shy, not ashamed of you. Terribly shy. Give him time.
7. Ask him about it. Be direct and let him know you expect a direct answer in return. Find out if this is a general phobia of his or something that's specifically related to you. The first you can try to help him out with; the second is a clear sign for you to exit.
And no, you shouldn't ever be with someone who is ashamed of you.
Good luck.
8. ask him str8 out if he is
9. Dear Friend,
Be straight up. Talk to him, tell him how U feel. If his behavior continues, you have your answer. If he changes his responses, you have your answer. Take the next step.
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