I'm a plus size girl (size 22/24) and my husband is around 2XL/3XL. I want to spice up our sex life.. but am unsure of what positions would work with two plus size people. Anyone have any suggestions or websites?
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1. well doggy style works the best for me....thats when i work that **** in there...it makes my gf go wild...is so hott.....and u can nail her as hard as you can....
2. There was a quiz about this last week on the web. In your case being on top face to face would be best. The larger you are the fewer options their are for you to "spice it up".
May I suggest a sexy dance, sexy nighty and soft lighting. Perfume is always good too. Men love a massage also.
3. Go to an book store examp "barnes & noble" lok in the relation ship isle they will have several books that will address sexual positions, go through & see what you like & what works.... Only you two will know what works or how flexible you are....
4. A good position is for you to get on top and turn away from him and ride him, doggie style or have him sit in a chair and you sit on his lap not facing him. Also try the spoon position...where he is behind you and your leg is over his.
5. Lights down low, burning candels, soft music, and let your mind wonder and everything will be just fine. Good Luck.
6. The politically correct thing to do here is tell you all kinds of kinky ways to make it really good and HOT!
But the truth is, if you both get in better shape...it will be SOOOO much better. I say this because I know. My wife was once a big girl too. I do not love her any more now than I did then. I do not lust for her any more now than I did then. But now she can keep up with me and sex is MUCH better than it ever was when she was big. NOT because of her looks, but because she has better stamina and flexibility.
Don't know where to send you to find out about better sex for big people, but when you find out, walk there. Just doing that everyday will give you what you seek.
7. Ok so your a size 22/24 and he's a 2xl/3xl?
Spooning is not going to work as said above , nor is him sitting on a chair and you on his lap.
Doggy , sitting on top , sitting on top and facing away with your back to him , on your back with him pulling 1 leg up high and leaning it on his shoulder so he can get deeper penetration.
Have fun.
8. I am a plus size girl and I can tell you if you are flexible and willing to try: you can do anything. Just some flexibility exercise everyday and you can do what those skinny girls can do! Also, try your local book store for new moves. Just practice, practice, practice and you will see how easy it will be.
9. I have found that doggy style seems to work the best for both parties. And, how's about from the side or spooning? You could also try using some of the furniture at your disposal. Try bending over the arm of the sofa. you could also try LIBERATOR products.
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