i am a 15 year old guy, and am in grade 10. I dont know why girls dont really like me, more than friends, or come up and talk to me. I am fairly good looking, 6 feet tall, 170 pounds, muscular, short brown curly hair, blue eyes, fasionable, and i play on the school football team. I am shy, but not really shy, i talk to guys and girls. I just dont know why girls dont like me, or atleast i think they dont, they dont come and talk to me or anything. what should i do?
Answers:
1. Stop being shy. Girls your age are shy too.
2. Don't worry about it so much. You're still very young and have a long time to worry about that sort of thing. They'll come around.
3. Go and talk to them, they might just be shy.
4. There not just gonna go up to you and say they like you! lol
You have to talk around too see which girls are interested
5. Get over your shyness and talk to them! Girls like it when guys persue THEM. You can do it! Good luck!
6. get some confidence, chicks dig that. They may be waiting for you to say something first....
7. try talking to them and be friendly and slowly theyy will start likeing u more and more
8. are you confident? if yes, do you show it? do you stand up straight with your shoulders back and head held high> girls notice these things... and it is attractive.... that is my opinion... you are also young and have time for all of this time. enjoy yourself and things will come naturally
9. im a seventh grader and you sound like you never asked out a girl in your life ha! but still you must create a natural comfort with the opposite sex i mean if they flirt you flirt back duh!
10. it could be because you are waiting for this perfect girl to fall rite into your lad. take more control in your relationships. make girls want you
11. You're 15! Don't worry about it. It will come.
Just keep doing what you're doing. Talk to girls, hang out with them in groups... Eventually, they start liking you. You might not know it, but I'm sure one of them likes you right now!
If you can build up the nerve, you could even try asking one of them out. You never know... they might just say yes...
12. Maybe girls are intimidated by you. You sound fairly good looking. Be super friendly and confident. Not cocky...confident. They will come around.
13. you sound handsome. maybe the girls at your school are weird. i know that some girls don't like curly hair though.
14. Try your luck talking to them. If it don't work it is your personality & the way you make people feel or how you act. Remember that nobody ever sees you the way you see yourself. You have to step back & take a good look. Just try approaching them 1st before you go into all that.
15. ITS NOT YOU ITS DA GIRL OR MAYBE YOU 2 NICE AND THEY WANT A THUG OR SOMETHING BUT DONT CHANGE FOR NO ONE JUST BE YOUR SELF AND YOU GET THE RITE GIRL SOONER OR LATER BUT YOU WILL HAVE YOUR GIRL THE ONE YOU WANT
16. Maybe it's not that the girls dont like you...maybe they like you so they've been avoiding you...the're too shy to talk to you
17. Two things you said that if i was a girl i wouldn't date you. First of all you sound so much like a nice guy...you dont have to be an *** but you dont have to say yes to every thing. And yea you might be good looking but if you dont have no game partna, you dont have nothing. Start talking to girls and get comfortable...the more you are around them the more comfortable youll get and then thats when youlll start meeting girls. Stop being so damn shy and be a little cocky!
18. Perhaps you should spend some time studying?
High school is not the end of the world. Dating is not what it is about, especially if a person cannot get his priorities straight.
If you want me to be frank, girls (that are anywhere near to mildly intelligent) probably do not talk to you because you play football. Football players are notoriously perverted and idiotic (I know that you will say that you are some sort of exception, but there is no such thing). It's evident that you have an unhealthy ego. That is probably a factor.
19. when you're talking to one of them and things are going right just say these four words, "you wanna hang out ?" and be prepared for a "yes"
20. well whats your personality like throughout the day? You sound like a cool guy...... You just need to get more of a foothold on talking to others, you know?
21. Traditionally it is the man who makes the first move. This really sucks when you are shy and not confident, but it's the way it is - consider it as payment for a life being able to wear comfortable shoes all the time. Anyway the thing is that girls generally won't make the first move so you need to. If you think this means you are going to have to expose yourself to the possibility of rejection, you are right. Unfortunately you are just going to have to learn to live with that. Next time try just going up and starting a conversation with a girl you like, just talk to her the way you would to a guy and see how it goes, probably a lot better then you think. Good luck!
Oh and don't worry that they don't like you, girls at 15 are very cruel, if they didn't like you they would be ridiculing you and you would know all about it.
22. OH SWEETIE YOU JUST DONT KNOW..I CAN BET YOU ANY AMOUNT OF MONEY THAT GIRLS ARE DEF INTERESTED IN YOU. FROM WHAT YOUR SAYING..YOU SOUND LIKE A PRETTY GOOD CATCH BUT I KNOW FROM EXPERIENCE (YEARS AGO) THAT IF A GUY THAT SOUNDS AS CUTE AS YOU ARE..CHANCES ARE THE GIRLS MAY A--THINK YOUR A PLAYER..WHICH MEANS TALK TO ALL KINDS OF GIRLS OR B- THINK YOUR TOO GOOD FOR THEM...TO BE HONEST WITH YOU. ITS BETTER THAT THEY ARE NOT ALL APPROACHING YOU..GIRLS THAT APPROACH GUYS ARE IN MY OPINION "FAST"..YOU SHOULD BE THE ONE TO GO AFTER THE GIRL THAT YOU LIKE..DONT PICK THE GIRL THAT IS GOING AFTER ALL THE OTHER GUYS..PICK THE GIRL THAT IS DOING JUST THE OPPOSITE..I KNOW YOUR YOUNG AND YOU MAY NOT BELIEVE ME..BUT TRUST ME ON THIS ONE~
23. It sounds like they might be too shy to approach you and show interest. Girls don't like to face rejection any more than guys do. If you meet someone that you are interested in, make it obvious! Hopefully that should help. But, then YOU have to take a chance. High School is hard. Sorry kid :/
24. dude get her drunk then bang her......omg that is the perfect plan.................lol jp thats wrong if u actually going to do that.... just stop being a ***** and go up to grl and talk to them, that's how my b/f got me..........most grls like that.........just dont be a puss
25. You have to stop being shy. At this age the girls are expecting you to make the first move. you just gotta jump in some girls will say yes and some will say no its all part of life.
Good luck!
26. wow its weird cuz u sound perfect ...lol girls in my school would be all over u ...maybe u should try to talk more and relate to the girls around u...just try to become very good friends with all the girls u meet....cuz i really dont see a problem with u at all...the only thing i could think of is the shy part ..i know ur not out of control shy but the only other thing is that maybe ur too good lol ..that girls feel like u wouldnt give them the time of day so they dont even want to try ....well i hope that helped...and dont worry from what i know u will have a gf very very soon ..good luck
27. You sound like a hunk. Just wait. It will happen one day real soon. Take a look at your clothes, hair cut. Take a personal inventory of yourself. Be fair. Do you need a new attitude? A new scent? Some really great after shave colone that would help bring attention to yourself. Good luck.
28. Not a lot to go on, but my guess is that you talk to people you already know, but you're wondering why total strangers don't come talk to you.
If that pretty well describes it, then you just need to be more approachable. Talk to people you don't know. Invite them to go with you and your friends to do whatever it is you're going to do, even if it's nothing in particular.
When strangers figure out you're not a snob, they'll come talk to you because they won't fear being rejected.
29. You sound like a sweet boy, Once the girls get ahold of you that sweet boy will be gone. Make sure you aren't talking about weird things around girls. Keep your conversations mellow.
30. just wait, one of those girl in your class has a crush on you a she is most likely the bast looking girl their sow just wait she will let you know when the time is right.
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