I love one guy he lives in different country. I convince my parents but I have one elder sister and one younger. I find out that they decided that once they marry both my sisters then they will plan for my marriage but i want to marry now I am 25 and done my studies and have good job and the guys is also settled. I don't know how to talk to my parents how to start this topic there is nobody to talk on my behalf I just need your help.
Thanks
Answers:
1. Just be honest... besides, you are able now... so, just ask you mum how she planning to get married with yor dad before... and then, i think it was a great great intro to disscuss with her... Good luck...
2. U just sit them down and come right out and tell them, don't be scared ur 25 a grown adult. However make sure ur making the right decision! Cuz outta the country hmmmm how do u know him?
3. Hi Ina
Great........ congratulations......... for being in love.
I got your questions. I am concerned about your situation. but before saying anything let me tell you. the guy is outsider means he is from different country as per you. But is he there with you? or your love is online one? Are You sure that he also loves you the same. You have convinced your mom and dad. that's also great.
Marraige is a matter of life though you are an adult of 25 quite matured and understanding. But then also always whatever we see sometimes comes as a blunder even though we are pretty matured to understand the situation and especially in love that happens.
As per my personal view you should go with your parents as I am from India and we have a high traditions for parents we cannot overgo our parents. There are people in India who even sacrifies their love for the same.
I don't say you to do the same. But be cautious before you take any steps because your one wrong step can ruined both your parents and your life. I have seen such cases here.
But if you have FAITH in your love then tell him the situation and if he is REALLY LOVING you he will be ready to accept the situation. and will WAIT for you.
I am not telling to sacrifice but if your mom & dad has told you that first your 2 sister will get married then that will be with something in their mind. They are your parents they have seen more life then you. They have faced various situation and they are quiet experienced.
Thats all I want to convey.
Hope to get your love.
Be there for ever for you. Contact me anytime needed
Yours Lovely friend
Hemal Jivani
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