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Can pretty girls be virgins?

   
i wouldn't consider myself "gorgeous" but i'm not ugly either, i've been TOLD i'm pretty...i admit, i have my ugly days, and my "hot" days but overall, i'm just very happy with the way i look - i have an easygoing attitude, fun personality yet mature and serious at times. I get along great with guys and girls - hate drama. When it comes to love, i honestly believe (esp. at a young age), it's a waste of emotional, mental, and physical energy if you won't be with someone for a long time or better yet, a lifetime. I'm a one man woman and would rather wait however long it takes to find that ONE guy who completely respects me and not just treat me as a princess, i'm picky for my own good and yes, I'm a virgin b/c i choose to be one. Ppl who i'm close w. and trust who i've shared this with, don't believe me b/c "alot of guys like me" and i'm "pretty" so they all thought i would have given it up, but i haven't...would a guy think this is weird?

Answers:

1. yes or else id have been ....

2. I respect you so much for not just settling for any guy! That is so awesome! Never lower your standards to meet society expectations... Guys mught find it weird though because most pretty girls sleep around alot but if you have sex with a bunch of people than there is no true meaning behind it and it loses how sacride sex should be

3. its so normal. that is just the way you think and there is no problem with it. we are all different. like me. my friends, most of them have given it up, but i am still waiting to find the guy that really deserves it. so dont worry. that is ok.

4. Yes, they can. Most guys would find it weird, but if this is what you want, the decent ones will respect it

5. Pretty girls can be virgins, but it's harder for them because they generally have more boys hitting on them. "Mr. Right" will probably think it's weird when he learns you're a virgin, but I guarantee you he'll love you all the more for it. I hope you're able to live up to the standard you've set for yourself. By the way, based on your philosophy, I think you're as pretty on the inside as you are on the outside.

6. Being a virgin is something to be proud of, I know I sure am! People sometimes don't believe me. I am not sure in my case it is so much because of the way I look (I'm about average) but because of the fact that so few people seems to be a virgin at this day and age (which I find to be rather sad) I want to do that with someone special. My boyfriend thinks it is great that I respect my body like that and he said he is willing to wait as long as I want. We don't see each other much but I know he will be the one when the time is right. By the way I don't know if it matters but I'm 18. Don't worry about what the guys might think, if he is a good guy he will understand and respect that! :)

7. Hi I;m not a young girl, but a Mum with two teenage daughters whom I am very close with. I totally respect where you are coming from and think you are very wise and have a mature attitude and wish more girls thought like you. I just wanted to say that first. I do think things have changed a lot since I was young however I do remember guys thinking the same about pretty girls even when I was young. A lot of them tend not to believe the pretty ones when they say they are virgins. However, I do not think the guys think it is weird. I think they just find it hard to believe as they think you must have had a lot of guys in the past. From both my daughter's advice - a lot (not all) of the pretty girls fall in love with the adoration they receive from boys and lose their virginity in the process as they are fearful of losing this adoration. They seem to believe a lot of these pretty girls have insecurities about themselves even though they get a lot of attention. If the guys you meet do not believe you - stuff them! Wait for someone who does believe and respects your standing on this and respects you as a person. And if they truely think you are weird - then they are not worth it. This is their way of trying to seduce you. They want you to think you are weird to pressure you into sex. This happened in my day too - many years ago. I advised my daughters this goes on and they agree as they see it all the time. They tell me guys too tell you "you want it just as much as me" and they use lines such as "you're as horny as me" and other similar lines to try to convince you to get into bed with them. Don't fall for it! Stick with your convictions and you will be proud, happy and find true love. All the best.

8. Yes, pretty girls can be virgins. So can ugly ones.

9. Unfortunately, no. Only ugly ones.

10. Mouth moving...nothing important coming out...

11. no way

12. No, he would think you are a mature, sophisticated person.

13. lol anyone can be virgins! there's no rules in who can and cant. and just cuz guys like u or w/e doesnt mean u cant or arent. thats rediculous who ever thinks that! I waited tell i was married to lose my virginity. and i applaud you for maybe trying to do the same.

14. Yes, Yes, and yes right now there is a fine girl I like and i know for sure shes a virgins, and most pretty girls don't give it up.

15. None of the stuff you described I view as important. You talk a lot. Sex. If the guy your with isn't a jerk, its a considerable amount of pressure on him as well. My shoes. Wear them.

16. No, I don't think this is weird. It's very respectable that you would wait for the one. Honestly, thats what I think everyone should do. There's nothing wrong with pretty girls being virgins.

17. no because, im like the same way just... a guy! haha,

18. possible... but a very lil' percent...

19. Some guys will think it's weird, others will be charmed. Make up your own mind and don't worry about people thinking you are weird.

20. Nah! Some pretty girls have looks and BRAINS to keep thier virginity when they are in highschool or college. I am just guessing. I think you rock for keepin ya mary side! Dont do it till you are ready and older and out of school! its best for you. best of luck!

21. no guy should think it is weird. I believe the same as you. I dont think that any guy should have a propblem with it because it shows that you want to wait until you are ready. and not waste it on somebody that is not worth it!! you go girl!!!

22. YEA IM A VIRGIN AND IMM SEXYY and GORGEOUS. LMAOO.But I'm a virgin because im picky and waiting for the right lucky guy :)

23. i do not think that is weird and i very much respect it! i know plenty of girls who are very pretty and still virgins. i think you just need to stick with it for personal reasons and dont let other peoples opinions of you change your mind!

24. i dont think its wired its good that your sticking to ur morals i wish more girls would do the same

25. there are no virigin nowadays.....

26. No I don't find it surprising. Usually guys who want to have sex target ugly girls, and make them feel loved. :]] You are wise for your way of life. I think all girls should be more like you... and somewhat I. You will eventually find someone you will love. And that is the best happiest way to live.

27. I waited till i found the right guy too. i also waited till we were married and i am soooo glad that i didn't give a part of my heart to just any guy out there. i am his and only his. and i say kudos to you!!!!!

28. Weird...no. Uncommon, maybe. Even so, it's INCREDIBLY stupid to have sex just because it's the popular thing to do. You should have sex when YOU'RE ready. So many girls think they're ready, because it's unpopular NOT to be ready. You are being the smart, mature one...contrary to what they may believe. Having sex doesn't make you mature. Being confident enough in yourself, and having the self respect to say 'No' until you're genuinely ready...IS!

29. Well. Aside from your situation, if I only saw that question without knowing anything then I would say OF COURSE. Simply because the term "girls" applies to mostly anyone from age 0.000....1 to, well, 20's? (lol-_-) but anyway the answer is still yes. Of course they can. I know a lot of girls who are and they're pretty. But of course, it depends on what you mean by pretty; besides, everyone has a different view and opinions of others. So who's to judge who's pretty or not.

30. Yes, pretty girls can be virgins Never explain--your friends do not need it and your enemies will not believe you anyway just remember that.

31. I wouldn't, just because someone is "good looking" doesn't mean anything about their virginity. The problem is, a lot of people think virgins are people who CAN'T get any, and since they think you could get some, you would have. Again, this isn't true, for people have different standards and morals about sex. Some people like to save their virginity for marriage and that's fine, nothing wrong with that. Again, it's the stereotype that you're only a virgin if you can't get any, but it's not weird for an attractive person (both mentally and physically) to be a virgin.

32. You have chosen to be a virgin. Immature men may think that being a virgin is weird but who really cares what they think. People have a hard time believing that pretty girls or guys are virgins because in society they are the ones seen as "popular", in the "right clicks" and fun to be around. People like this are hit on a lot and thus must have given it up. Be your own person and do what you think is right. Care not about the popular opinion. A person of strong convictions is a much better mate than a **** who goes with what others tell them they should do. I personally find your convictions sexy.

33. LOL Are you serious? What on Earth do looks have to do with sex? It doesnt matter, and it's all relative and depending to the PERSON not on his or her looks....

34. Well... To be honest they might start questioning if it is a Religious thing... There is ABSOLUTLY NOTHING wrong with remaining a virgin for as long as you choose to remain one!! I've been with 2 men in my life... 1 because I was stupid in High School and 1 that I was with for almost 5 years and thought I would marry... I haven't "gone all the way" with anyone in more then 4 years because I decided to do what you are doing... Waiting for the right person to come around and not just settle for Mr. or Ms. Right Now... If I WANTED to get laid I could go downstairs to the restaurant/bar I live above and pick up anyone I put my mind to but I don't want to be "That Person" and would much rather wait until I meet a Long-Term Partner that I know I will be with for, if not the rest of my life then at least for more then 5 years!! Don't worry what anyone assumes about you... Don't worry about what anyone else thinks... You have a legitimate reason and a well thought out argument for why you are waiting... You’re not doing it for anyone else but yourself... YOUR feelings on the subject are the O N L Y thing that matter!!!!! But, from one celibate chick to another… Buy a good vibe… It will keep your willingness to stay a virgin as strong in the future as it is now! LOL!... http://www.stockroom.com The celibate girl’s best friend! LOL! LOL!

35. Not a guy....however I say if he really cares about you he will respect your decision to wait and not think your "weird". Who cares what the others think?! I know plenty of girls who are waiting for marriage and their "one true love" and saving that for them. Why throw it away for someone passing through or take a chance catching an STD. You show more strength, maturity and moral integrity by your decision to wait. Good for you!

36. Please honey dont flatter yourself! If they think its weird then like u said dont waste your time.

37. What does one's outer appearance have to do with being a virgin, I mean, I'm fairly pretty and I am......although I'm also only in high school........ However, I still don't think that you need to feel pressured about not being a virgin just because your pretty, I mean that's just silly. ^_^

38. I think that the prettiest girls are the ones who are virgins. I think that society places so much emphasis on sex that it makes a relationship lopsided. Everything goes to the physical side and you never get to know the person. All you can think about is getting into bed, when you put that out of the formula it is a lot easier to have a real, selfless relationship. Basically, I think if a guy doesn't like you because you won't sleep with him, it's not because you're not pretty, it's because he's selfish.