A married guy age 30 likes me im 26. and he has kids and a wife overseas. i like his company to socialize cos i dnt see any harm being friend with married or single.. but the thing is he wants me as his gf. he shows alot of time and always helpful and thoughtful but i treat him as a frend and besides i wouldnt want his wife coming after me...
Answers:
1. Maybe you should try to avoid him as much as possible.
2. Hit the road, sucks to lose a friend, sucks worst to be a part of some crazy love triangle.
3. I wouldn't date him, he sounds like a jerk. If he can cheat with you, he can & probably will cheat on you. Plus, think about how you'd feel if your husband & the father of your kids cheated on you.
4. DONT GO WITH HIM! he is just be a Jerk to his wife to even ask you that!!!
dont have him cheat on his wife.
5. Do not do not do NOT get involved!
6. then make that clear to him
if he still doesnt get the hint, distance yourself from him
7. i don't think you should get involved with that. wouldn't want him commiting adultery if you were a real friend.
8. stay away from a married guy with kids, you dont want to be the reason why his life gets thrown in the air, besides, what kind of man with a wife and kids, is looking for a gf... doesn't seem like a very good guy, if he is willing to do that, just think of how much of an *** he is..
i say stay away
9. He isn't that helpful and thoughtful, he is trying to get you to commit adultery. This man is not as nice as he seems on the surface. He is being nice because he hopes to get you to sleep with him. Try making it clear that is never going to happen - I bet anything you will suddenly find he is not as nice as you thought. If you don't, well maybe you can still have him as a friend, but I am betting you will see the nasty side. Better to see it now than later on after you get involved with him.
10. cmon dont steal a man who is already married find someone who is single you can do better
11. HI honey, don't go out with him, if he's doing this to his wife overseas he can do the same thing to you if you go out with him, but be careful men like that are kinda twised in the mind. take care and be strong and NO means NO.
12. You said it yourself, girl! good thinking!
there seems to be no problem on you as long as you hold on to that principle of yours. there really is no harm BEING FRIENDS with a married man. in friendship, civil status doesn't matter. but when a married man wants to date you, a single, you can always insist on what you think is right.
13. Honestly, this guy has no interest in being "your friend" and I would say that you have no business having a relationship with a married man that has children, unless you where a friend to the entire family, including the wife. If that is not the case, you need to just leave him alone and get on with your life, cause when the wife gets home, you are looking for trouble. (Just being honest)
14. dont even think about it youll just get in huge problems
15. He just wants to bang you. If he wanted to go further, he would have left his wife and kids. If his wife found out, he would leave you in a heart beat to be with his wife.
16. I think you know the answer to this, but I'll tell you anyway. Get away from him and don't look back. Especially if you are 26, man you have a choice of guys, and if he's all ready taken, why would you want that grief? If you do do this, what happens if something should happen to you and you can't be around him for a while? I don't think he'll wait then either. And if his wife is overseas, which could indicate military he should be supporting her anyway he can, and so should you. And you have to think about the kids, there mom isn't there right now, they need dad to man up and grow a pair.
17. MAYBE YOU SHOULD GIVE HIM A BREAK. IF HE'S MARRIED AND GOT KIDS, HE IS A WASTE OF YOUR TIME. JUST TELL HIM THAT ITS NOT GOING TO WORK IN A RELATIONSHIP OR AS BEING FRIENDS. AND BESIDES YOU DONT KNOW IF HIS WIFE IS PSYCO OR WHAT. SHE MIGHT TRY TO COME MURDER YOU. YOU NEVER KNOW.
18. one of my favorite quotes is:
"someone who is willing to lie for you will be willing to lie against you."
this isn't really specific to your predicament , but the guy would be lying to his wife, so it is still very applicable to your situation
19. As others say... DO NOT GET INVOLVED WITH THIS GUY..
He is just treating you well for his own purposes.. im sure you know what i mean.. You would be just stupid if you realize this and still want to enjoy his company.. because at the end of it all, you will have no one else to blame but yourself.., Dont allow yourself to be abused like this.. On a moral end put yourself in his wife's shoes., would you want some girl going after your husband when she knows hez taken?
You should answer yourself before "enjoying his company". Yeah our mind is kinda weak in enjoying some special treatment, but if you know that the motive behind it is not good it just spells one word .. TROUBLE.. so head out right now!!
20. stay away period!!!
21. You are only a T-O-Y to him Yes that spells toy. He'd have 15 girlfriends if they'd let him. His wife is overseas for whatever reason and he's got a little friend demanding attention. He can't think when that little friend is talking so you are his focus.
Take some pride in yourself and throw that rat to the snakes. He will never be anything to you but a problem. He could really care less about you personally, just what you look like physically.
22. Enjoy his company! We live only once!!
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