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My next door neighbor's Angie & Joe used to have what I would call a good marriage till they started to swing!
Now he goes into Jealous rage moments and I do fear that I might hear one day he killed her!
I've called police so many times I can't remember and all they do is take him out of house for the night, and she wont press charges so that's that!
Racer x, I like what you said about abuse happens all the time regardless of who you are but their are things that don't help the situation and it seems to me that swinging has become toxic to the marriage!
I used to swing in 1st marriage and you and I both know that swinging is about perspective,
Answers:
1. 5 hours ago
and even though you may have a good marriage before the event that does not take into the fact not everyone is built with a release button on their emotions, and I might say that not a bad thing either.
I have learned in that marriages that swings or go open, you have rely nothing invested but your time and a few emotions, and if the other person decides to to leave, well then thats for the best! { SEEN IT DONE IT MYSELF}
I've watched these next door neighbor and have been friends with them and seen the damage done and my husband says it's their problem but as I said earlier what if Angie ends up dead?
What do you people think should I make it known to police, even though Angie begs me not to inform them of their swinging lifestyle next time I call them to stop abusive event?
Angie says life has never been better since they started to swing, what a life What to do?
{ personally my 2nd marriage is just him and I for almost 15 years now and staying that way}
2. You have no control over your friend. It is sad and it is painful to watch her make mistakes that could be fatal and not be able to stop her. Deal with it! There is nothing you can do other than continue calling the cops.
You keep posting and posting and you are just going to get the same answers. Your friend has made her choice. She isn't changing and she isn't leaving her abusive husband and she likes the odd lifestyle. Deal with it!
Maybe you should consider moving. Get it through your head even though it is not what you want to hear or accept. Facts are facts.
You can't make your friend do anything she does not want to do. Your husband either!
3. It is there business. If you have talked to her and she does not agree with you. Then...done.
Wash your hands of it and sleep well knowing you have done your part.
NEXT...keep your nose out of their business. Just brings drama into your life.
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